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Katie1
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How to get abusive ex to stop...

Post by Katie1 » Sat Mar 15, 2014 2:06 pm

using his kids to gain immigration status ( the title of my post was too long)

I have posted on here before. So you can look at my previous posts.

Since then, my ex has had the right to stay in the UK on a limited leave biometric card and can apply for settlement after 10 years.

I am a bit upset that he lied to immigration judge that he has been there for his two kids and only got stay because of human rights ground. Since he has was released, he told me that he never wants to see his kids again and that he felt so happy that the immigration judge believed his lies.

He came to my house once, making commotion because I "upset him", because I told him that he shouldn't be using his kids. Anyway, this resulted in him banging on my front door as I refused to let him in...simply to avoid another incident of domestic violence. The police was called and they took him away and of course he told the police them that the reason why he was causing a commotion was because I refused to let him see the kids..obviously a lie.

It has been 3 months and he has't seen his kids..he has been given a choice to have supervised access but made it clear that he does not want anything to do with his kids.

I understand that he does have status in the UK and nothing will change that. But in the future, Incase he needs to make a new claim of settlement, benefits or whatever, I do not want him to se his kids again to gain something. How can I stop this? the dad is on the birth certificate and the children have his surnames.

Thanks. :)

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Re: How to get abusive ex to stop...

Post by Amber » Sun Mar 16, 2014 12:39 am

vinny wrote:
D4109125 wrote:Please continue in your other thread
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