British person want to settle with asylum seeker in ireland

peridot786 wrote:Hi I'm new here and don't know if I'm in the right place. But my question is. That I'm a British born and bred in uk. I got married 17 years ago to someone from pakistan... It was a ranged marriage I'm still living with him. But just for name sake. About 7 months ago I met a person on FB who lives in ireland. He's a asylum seeker... we got alot close always on the phone and video chatting and fb. Now is the stage that we can't live without each other.. I decided that I will leave everything and go there. But I wanted to know how I can live with him and apply to have him with me here either in uk or ireland. I don't mind where we live. As long as I live with him. Please help me. I'm so depressed and stressed

peridot786 wrote:Hi I'm new here and don't know if I'm in the right place. But my question is. That I'm a British born and bred in uk. I got married 17 years ago to someone from pakistan... It was a ranged marriage I'm still living with him. But just for name sake. About 7 months ago I met a person on FB who lives in ireland. He's a asylum seeker... we got alot close always on the phone and video chatting and fb. Now is the stage that we can't live without each other.. I decided that I will leave everything and go there. But I wanted to know how I can live with him and apply to have him with me here either in uk or ireland. I don't mind where we live. As long as I live with him. Please help me. I'm so depressed and stressed

Casa wrote:Have you met in person yet? You can of course go and live in Ireland, but bringing him to live with you in the UK is another matter, especially considering the fact that you are still married to someone else.

noajthan wrote:

peridot786 wrote:Hi I'm new here and don't know if I'm in the right place. But my question is. That I'm a British born and bred in uk. I got married 17 years ago to someone from pakistan... It was a ranged marriage I'm still living with him. But just for name sake. About 7 months ago I met a person on FB who lives in ireland. He's a asylum seeker... we got alot close always on the phone and video chatting and fb. Now is the stage that we can't live without each other.. I decided that I will leave everything and go there. But I wanted to know how I can live with him and apply to have him with me here either in uk or ireland. I don't mind where we live. As long as I live with him. Please help me. I'm so depressed and stressed

Nothing to stop you going off to live in Ireland; thanks to CTA that's very straightforward if you are a BC.
Whether the grass seems as green in the cold light of day is another matter ofcourse.

But you can't easily bring anyone back to UK, via UK or EU migration routes.
That is neither as a spouse nor as an unmarried partner in a relationship 'akin to marriage', until you sort out spouse #1.
So you are going to have to face reality and make some hard choices sooner or later.

noajthan wrote:

peridot786 wrote:Hi I'm new here and don't know if I'm in the right place. But my question is. That I'm a British born and bred in uk. I got married 17 years ago to someone from pakistan... It was a ranged marriage I'm still living with him. But just for name sake. About 7 months ago I met a person on FB who lives in ireland. He's a asylum seeker... we got alot close always on the phone and video chatting and fb. Now is the stage that we can't live without each other.. I decided that I will leave everything and go there. But I wanted to know how I can live with him and apply to have him with me here either in uk or ireland. I don't mind where we live. As long as I live with him. Please help me. I'm so depressed and stressed

Nothing to stop you going off to live in Ireland; thanks to CTA that's very straightforward if you are a BC.
Whether the grass seems as green in the cold light of day is another matter ofcourse.

But you can't easily bring anyone back to UK, via UK or EU migration routes.
That is neither as a spouse nor as an unmarried partner in a relationship 'akin to marriage', until you sort out spouse #1.
So you are going to have to face reality and make some hard choices sooner or later.

yaz87 wrote:

peridot786 wrote:Hi I'm new here and don't know if I'm in the right place. But my question is. That I'm a British born and bred in uk. I got married 17 years ago to someone from pakistan... It was a ranged marriage I'm still living with him. But just for name sake. About 7 months ago I met a person on FB who lives in ireland. He's a asylum seeker... we got alot close always on the phone and video chatting and fb. Now is the stage that we can't live without each other.. I decided that I will leave everything and go there. But I wanted to know how I can live with him and apply to have him with me here either in uk or ireland. I don't mind where we live. As long as I live with him. Please help me. I'm so depressed and stressed

Wrong time wrong desion

peridot786 wrote:

Casa wrote:Have you met in person yet? You can of course go and live in Ireland, but bringing him to live with you in the UK is another matter, especially considering the fact that you are still married to someone else.

And the uk laws accept a live in relationship. Like the de facto or something in ireland.

peridot786 wrote:Hi would really like is anyone have been or who is in my situation. And what will be the best way forward. As soon as I'm out of here. My first marriage will take about 3 months to end. And how do the de facto relationship work. Thankd

noajthan wrote:

peridot786 wrote:

Casa wrote:Have you met in person yet? You can of course go and live in Ireland, but bringing him to live with you in the UK is another matter, especially considering the fact that you are still married to someone else.

And the uk laws accept a live in relationship. Like the de facto or something in ireland.

Which UK laws are you thinking of?

UK immigration laws accept nothing less than 2 years of living akin to marriage (&, with depressing regularity, manage to split up regular married couples with genuine paperwork) so this needs cold, clinical planning.
Spur of the moment impulses don't sit well with migration routes into UK.

Casa wrote:If you're still married to your first husband, how are you going to re-marry in 3 months time? Also it may be far more complicated to marry an asylum seeker in Ireland than you think.

Casa wrote:I've never heard of a divorce in the UK only taking 3 months from start to decree absolute, even if both parties agree.
However, back to the immigration issue. As noajthan has already advised, a defacto or unmarried partnership requires 2 years of co-habitation in a relationship 'akin to marriage' in order to be considered as such for immigration purposes.

Casa wrote:If you're still married to your first husband, how are you going to re-marry in 3 months time? Also it may be far more complicated to marry an asylum seeker in Ireland than you think.
Also, although you are 2 years away from qualifying as de facto (unmarried partners), you should be aware of Ireland's immigration rules:
"For the sake of clarity, please note that applications from persons who are unlawfully present in the State and/or who are in the asylum/protection streams at the time of making the de facto application will not be accepted."

CalvinKlien wrote:What country are u from ?

What is ur current visa status ? Do u have any kind of visa or not ?

How did you entered to Ireland ?

How long r u living here ?

Are you working ?

And what are the bases of your Asylum ?

Casa wrote:Have you met in person yet? You can of course go and live in Ireland, but bringing him to live with you in the UK is another matter, especially considering the fact that you are still married to someone else.

peridot786 wrote:

Casa wrote:Have you met in person yet? You can of course go and live in Ireland, but bringing him to live with you in the UK is another matter, especially considering the fact that you are still married to someone else.

Hi thanks for reply. I don't want to bring him to uk at moment. I'm planning to go there to live with him.. and after getting a divorce from my first husband. Get married to him asap... all I want to know in the meantime if his asylum case is rejected can he still appeal until our marriage is done and then we can apply for the right immigration process we need. Please u will save alot of my dying hopes if anyone knows how things usually work. Thank

peridot786 wrote:

Casa wrote:I've never heard of a divorce in the UK only taking 3 months from start to decree absolute, even if both parties agree.
However, back to the immigration issue. As noajthan has already advised, a defacto or unmarried partnership requires 2 years of co-habitation in a relationship 'akin to marriage' in order to be considered as such for immigration purposes.

In our religion if a woman wants a divorce she will ask a islamic council and I heard within 3 months it happens. As I haven't been register married here in uk. I was married abroad... I just really want to know that If I go to ireland to live with my partner and is his asylum case is rejected can he still appeal until our marriage is done and then I start s case how ever time it takes for him. Hope u understand what I'm trying to say. Thanks

CR001 wrote:

peridot786 wrote:

Casa wrote:I've never heard of a divorce in the UK only taking 3 months from start to decree absolute, even if both parties agree.
However, back to the immigration issue. As noajthan has already advised, a defacto or unmarried partnership requires 2 years of co-habitation in a relationship 'akin to marriage' in order to be considered as such for immigration purposes.

In our religion if a woman wants a divorce she will ask a islamic council and I heard within 3 months it happens. As I haven't been register married here in uk. I was married abroad... I just really want to know that If I go to ireland to live with my partner and is his asylum case is rejected can he still appeal until our marriage is done and then I start s case how ever time it takes for him. Hope u understand what I'm trying to say. Thanks

Did you use your overseas marriage for any UK immigration purposes/visas/citizenship etc.?

If you and your husband are domiciled and live in the UK, you should divorce in the UK for it to be accepted.

CR001 wrote:You should divorce in the UK through the legal court system.