Thats very interesting then. All I know is that this company who assists ppl in getting their british passports and visas, is registered with the british consulate here in South Africa. They were quite helpfull with our travel visas to the UK last year, but seems its abit more of a challenge with my situation, being a non-EU non-UK person...
This morning we phoned the Irish Embassy to find out if it is not maybe less of a hassle, and more affordable for us to enter Northern ireland under Irish laws... well it seems no problem if we were to stay in Dublin, but when we mentioned that we are going to Belfast (northern ireland) the woman at the embassy said she couldnt help us because she doesnt know about british laws, etc. So it didnt really help us much. But I'm thinking, surely the same irish rules should be applicable in northern ireland?
From what we were now told by the woman at the Irish Embassy, i can travel with my wife, on my South African passport, to Dublin, but then have to register as an alien in Dublin, and they will either issue me with a registration number or issue me a 'green card'... or my employer will have to apply for a greencard for me. This is absolutely fine with me, as my first priority is to get a job.
But the last thing we want to have happen, is that we go the Irish route, and we run into problems with the border agency etc. and me not being entitled to work etc. We want to make sure all is done correctly.

We cant afford to come back to SA as we are giving up everything, and selling all our belongings so we have money to support ourselves there.