Can anyone help me please,its very important

I came in UK in 31st August 2005 as student, my wife as my depended. We have a 16 month old daughter. We applied for further leave to remain on last June 2013 on article 8 on a medical ground. Our visa was refused and appeal was dismissed aswel on first week of July 2014 in First Tier Tribunal.Now we are waiting for reissue our decision’s letter because this letter was sent into my old solicitor’s address. Tribunal are saying they have a backlog in their system, so they will take time to send it.
Next year 31th August (another 12 month) will be my 10 years for applying ILR.My question is…..
We will appeal in Upper tribunal then if possible appeal in court of appeal. When all those appeal process finished and if we are still unsuccessful then ….

1.what could be other option to live lawfully in UK for qualify applying for ILR ?
2. if I don’t have leave to remain can I able to apply for ILR from 28 days before my 10 year period complete ?

I would be very very pleased if you could give me those information. If you need any information please let me know.

is your daughter is 16 month now or she was 16 month when she came here,you can also apply for ur child 7 years concession ,if she spent 7 years or more in uk,another option u go through ur appeals to complete 10 years then u can apply for 10 years long residency

if ist tier doest allow u to apply for upper tribunal then u can go through judicial review,which take long time,and hopefully u can get time to qualify for 10 years,my husband judicial review is pending from feb 2012