I would like to know if someone has experience with a delay of an EEA family permit that can help me.
This is my case:
My husband is an EEA National, im Colombian. In june 02 this year we applied for an EEA family permit as a "durable realtionship" because we lived together in London and in Colombia, we also had been separated for some period of times he living in Uk and me living in Colombia, but we speak everyday, the application was refused because the CEO wasn't satisfy we weren't married.
So my partner came to Colombia and we've got married in the middle of july, Last time the negative answer from the embassy took 5 working days, the average processing time is 15 working days here, it has passed more than 20 working days and we have not answer yet.
We have proofs of cohabitation, e.mails, calls, pictures, we had a 3.5 years relationship before we got married, he come to Colombia 4 times, and last year stayed 6 months living with me with a tourist status , now we are scared they thinking we just got marriage of convinience, even having all the proofs , because of the first EEA family permit they refused

Is it a good idea to call the embassy??? even if they it can take 120 woking days?? this waiting time is awful

I appreciate any opinion, help or suggestion you could make
thank u