We applied for the UK spouse Visa (Priority Application). Its been 2 months since the biometrics and still waiting for the decision. My income (38,800 and more than 24 months old employment), accommodation (parents) and relationship elements are all fine.
Living apart is killing us. We no longer wish to continue living like this. We both are extremely stressed,
and I am at the peak of


When you consider financial cost i.e £1600.00 (application fees) +£600 (priority) + £1200 (IHS) + £1750 (Solicitors), £450 (other) PLUS this STREEEES. My heart says enough is enough.
I know someone who is EU citizen and living in the UK who recently got married in India and they applied for the UK spouse visa as a NON EEA wife of EU citizen, did not require English language test, no minimum income requirement, the BIG one is the application is no FREE no IHS and quick decision (within 7 days) and all is free and quick. She got 10 year visa unlike 2.5 +2.5 years for spouse of UK citizen. Why punishment for UK citizen? Because they can?
God forbid but what if our application gets refused by UKVI? We are not prepared to live apart anymore.
My question is can I still go to Republic of Ireland (Dublin) (before 31st October 2019) and exercise my EU rights? And If I move to Dublin how soon can my wife join me there as a spouse of EU citizen?
I am under massive amount of stress, going to Ireland means I have to leave my old parents, family members, and resign from my well paid job in the UK.
If UK Govt do not appreciate my tax and national insurance contributions so be it...

I am sorry if what I have written is not appropriate but I had to get everything out of my system. I am so frustrated.
Thanks very much for reading guys.