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by Naiad » Mon Feb 20, 2006 5:36 pm
Thanks for the reassurance, John. Your advice is, as always, rational and balanced.
We've known each other since July, have spent every single weekend together since then, have travelled overseas together and at the end of September we moved in together.
We have
emails sent between us,
my 'weblog' posts (my online travel diary) detailing things we did,
photos of us together as a couple and with other people,
air tickets and stamps in our passports from travel together,
admission tickets from other activities together,
correspondence from my Mum ddressed to both of us,
a couple of bills in joint names.
He is coming to Australia to be with me when I submit the application and we'll have tickets and stamps in our passports from that, too.
We also have;
Personal statements outlining how our relationship developed, when we decided to get married, our discussions about the wedding, our plans for the future and some personal background that will hopefully show we're both upstanding citizens
A month-by-month summary of his incomings and outgoings
6 months Bank statements (his and mine)
6 months Pay advice slips (his)
A letter from his employer confirming a recent pay rise
Mortgage statement (his, on the house we will live in)
Description of property from the mortgage
Photos of the house inside and out
6 months worth of utility bills on the house
Details of his car loan
Details of my assets and savings in Australia
Print-outs of some ads for suitable jobs for me after we are married and I'm allowed to work
Some things we haven't done:
set a date for the wedding (we're talking to family and friends trying to make it so everyone has time to arrange travel get there)
booked the registrar (apparently we can't do this until after I get the visa and come back into the country, also we're not sure where we are going to have the wedding yet - maybe in the Brecons where we live or maybe closer to where his family and friends are)
I don't have an engagement ring (we decided it was more important to us for him to come to Australia to be with me during the application).
Can you suggest anything we may have overlooked or whether the above three things would be a problem?