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by Ananomous123 » Thu Mar 21, 2019 9:13 pm
Hi everyone. I am just to trying to know - what should i do in the situation i am in.
I got married in the uk. My wife and i was living our lives like every other couple but shortly after few months of marriage i realised that my wife had some serious issues. She started becoming very insecure, and caused so much drama in the relationship. She started picking Un-necessary fights, loads of screaming and shouting on daily basis Which made me mentaly very depressed. I started going to the gp reguraly and told them everything whatever was happening. They were giving me antidepressants. My wife then started attacking me physically. I never called the police cos i didn’t know that police should be involved in these matters.
My wife called police like three times and officers never said anything to me, instead of that, officers insulted her cos she was lying and misbehaving with them. Police never said anything to to me infact i use to tell the officers that i will leave the house for like 2 hours so that everything will be normal. Her behaviour made me mentaly very disturbed and i tried to take her to the surgery but she never came with me. She was in an affair with a guy, which broke me down emotionaly, still after that she picked up a fight and physicaly attacked me again.
I had to call the police this time cos she was being nasty. Police took her, and ralased her next day by saying that they don’t have enough evidence to charge her. I left my house and stayed in hotel for two nights than i had to come back cos i had no where else to go. I tried to make things better between us but Still the situation was same, she became more worse, and i had to leave my house permantly because of her behaviour and my own mental health.
My councler after listening to all this told me that its domestic violence and reffered me to Domestic violene people.
Now my current visa is valid till next year november. I do not understand what should i do, shall i file the case, or just stay seperate. My Domestic Voilence Professionsl is saying that its a strong case, she will get all the necessary documents, MARAC reportand everything. What should i do in this situation cos i don’t know where i stand. If i go back to my house again, samething will happen. I am not speaking to her at all cos im mentaly ver unwel. Shall i file a case for DV.
I am a male, and i don’t know if it works with males.
Please be honest in your comments.
Thank you.