How to settle down with a over stayer

I am 20 year old british national by birth. I did nikkah with a pakistani national who was on a student visa which expired in 2011.We knew eachother for a long time and i wanted to marry him but because of my age and a strict family it was not an easy decision to make.In 2014 me and my husband now wanted to get together and do nikkah so i spoke to my dad about it and he refused and told my uncles and aunties about it. I got forced to leave my husband which i refused and left home for couple of days and did nikkah with my husband. My family convinced us to get back home and do things formally to not harm the family pride. We agreed and i went back home. I got locked up in my uncle's house and was told to change my mind or face the consequences. I resisted and in the mean time my husband went to police station and raised concerns about my saftey. Police looked for me and found me and i couldn't tell them the truth knowing it would get my parents in trouble and i didn't want them to get arrested. I got visited few times by police and they were not entirely neutral as i feel my uncles had some kind of influence on them which made them not help me and they kept my husband in dark about any communication they had with me and just satisfied him with self made statements about me.In the meantime my family arranged for me to go Pakistan. Now i had two choices. Either to marry my cousin or live in Pakistan until i get over my love life. One day before i went pakistan police and social services took statements of me and my husband. They gave me a choice if i want to go with husband i cannot go Pakistan which was a dangerous choice because i knew noone not even police will help us if i go against my family at this moment so i wanted to give it sometime to not get in any more trouble as i already had alot of torcher from my uncle so i stayed quiet. I went Pakistan and somehow contacted my husband and i managed to get back to England after a long hard struggle of pretending i will not do anything against family's will upon my arrival in UK. when i got back i left home after couple of days and reunited with my husband.
Now we are stuck in a dead end. We are together in a genuine relationship but we cannot figure out how we can get legally accepted.We are living a hard life now because he cannot get a visa as am not earning 18600 and he is overstayed. We cannot register our marriage as he don't have a valid passport or visa.
I want to know if my circumstances help us earn any sympathy as i am a citizen of this country since birth and if i lose my husband i will be left on my own with no money and no one to help.I have faith in my decision as i choose what i thought was right but will this judicial system support me in anyway to just be able to settle down after everything i been through.

Regards.