Izo wrote: ↑Tue Mar 27, 2018 12:19 am
Hello there I feel for you and all you facing, I read posts on here and it’s helpful to hear stories and views for different sources,
Being in the same boat or having been before in a situation where some one literally is paying for your well being with little mention of the burden they carry to provide your upkeep your partner sounds like a self centred person, wot does he expect you to do besides wait, steal? commit an offence of working illegally?
Yh it’s flastrating to be the main bread earner especially if you other half is unemployed,
Woo pie do does his hard done by,
wot would he do if he hard to move mountains? like really life changing scenarios-like life long care of a poorly relative but no his feels doing his manly bit of looking after you while down is tough love,
one has to sympathise that it’s not out of choice that you are in this situation, but a victim of a flastrating system and since you together you are meant to support each other through this tough testing moment of your relationship to have each other’s backs to succeed together,
he needs to grown up if women can do it he should be ashamed as a man to claim his hardship of footing the bills on his own with out your help not cause you can but cause you littarly can’t, at a time wen you actually needs his support and all his doing is morning and making you feel worse than you already feel,
am sorry but he his being and idiot,selfish selfcentered and unfair it’s like asking some one in a wheel chair to stand up and run,
find a way to resolve the issues with him buying your time till this is sorted yh like spacing out going for walks and that and hold on it won’t be for long now see it as a blessing in disguise you are where you are for a reason nothing in your life is a mistake hang in there be the yes person till all is well it won’t be long.
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