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As i am non eu national if she cancel my visa then i will be more vulnerable here thats is the reason still i am compromising.
She can't cancel your visa, it's not up to her to decide on your visa. Report her and let her know that you're not taking the abuse anymore. Give evidence, and walk away from this relationship.
Wasim020290 wrote: ↑Wed May 19, 2021 2:47 pmFriends,
Me and my latvian partner living in ireland from last 5 years. I got my stamp4 eufam before 3 years 2 month. I need complete more 1 year 4 month to apply EU3. We are de facto couple. We have 3 years old child . Things are not going well now. She was working here from past 5 years for my stamp condition. But now she do not want work and taking pup . Also argument going on between us. She is abusing me and threatening me always she cant pass this life for my visa matter. I am feeling very vulnerable situation as i am non eu national here in ireland . I tried comprise always but now is too much. She is abusing mentally for my visa matter that i am depend on her and whatever she like she can do. She put me always pressure for her financial needs which always i try to give. Sometime i manage her to understand sometime i cant . So things are worse now .
******My question can i apply independent status ? I do not want depend on her more with this abusive relation mentally pressure for my visa condition and financial threatening from her always.
******my partner said she can help all paperwork but she do not want work here anymore .
Plz guide me what should i do to stay here myself . Some people said apply domestic violence case. Is it good idea? She abused me for my visa condition and relationship is now abusing from her side. But we never want fight phisically when child is living with us. Please guide me. What are the domestic violence case chances to win ? She will help all paperwork . Thanks
you can start from yourself
So are you going to provide the blackmailing money to the OP?
Of course, littlerr, he should report if he wants, I am just providing different angle for him to look, I am sure he is not stupid and he knows the right way is to report to Garda, simple thing to do, but why he was still posting here?littlerr wrote: ↑Wed May 19, 2021 4:38 pmSo are you going to provide the blackmailing money to the OP?
You can't fix a relationship when someone clearly just wants to blackmail you. Abusers need to be reported.
I understand your concern, I suggest you to consult a solicitor, maybe have a search here 'domestic violence' to have a look of other's peoples story.Wasim020290 wrote: ↑Wed May 19, 2021 9:06 pmThe thing is that from both side we do not want engage in a physical violence because of child interest .
I was comprising all her abusing blackmailing because of child interest and my residence matter.
But now criticism abusive behaviour is day by day going worse.
If i report to garda that we are in abusing relationship and cant live together will it works as domestic violence permission to stay here? She will help all paperwork i believe for our child interest .
I am scared to apply only because heard minister is not giving permission for domestic violence non eu national easily. Because by chance if minister cancel my visa i will loose work right and it eill be very hard for me to survive.
Sorry, no one can actually advise about the success rate...but is going to be a long long process no matter what is the result. What do you mean they can apply only through?Wasim020290 wrote: ↑Thu May 20, 2021 9:04 pmHi irishman
Do you have any idea about the success rate of domestic violence case in ireland? Although i mentioned that we do not want involve in a physical violence for the child best interest. But my partner is willing to do the all paperwork for me for the child interest before she moving to her country . What do you think? I contacted irish lawyer they said they can apply only through the all circumstances thats all.
Hi we are not married at all. Our child was born in another eu country. Our non marital partnership in more than 7 years. Child is 4 years almost now. What is my right then if we can not stay together ?reachsid wrote: ↑Mon May 31, 2021 3:26 pmSorry to hear, it is a tough time to deal.
I can speak from my experience, Independent visa will NOT be issued for Stamp 4 EUFAM holders.
I have gone through similar situation with my ex-partner after a year of marriage and I applied for Independent visa(with proof of abuse) but it was refused, response was to apply for EU5 after divorce. - This was in 2016.
We got divorced in 2020 and applied for EU5 (waiting for response)
Get in touch in community bodies like Amen or Immigrant Council, don't take abuse this will effect long-term.
Thank you Obie for reply. We did not involve in physical violence never because always i tried to be stay quiet because of child future amd also my immigration matter. You can imagine it where is my situation .Obie wrote: ↑Tue Jun 01, 2021 8:19 pmIt will not be the most straightforward of cases, but it will be around you applying for access rights for your son through the courts and applying on his basis, as you have not reported to GP or receiving treatment for emotional abuse, so proving will be tough.