Help with refusal -EEA4

After more than of 5 months of waiting,my application have been refused for two reasons:
1.Not provided the evidence that my wife,an EEA national reside in UK,so dont have basis of staying in UK
2.Didnt submit original docs

I applied an EEA4 in may this,year,when my wife (EEA) national had her docs in Home Office for EAA3 which was granted.I enclose a letter to tell them to consider my application with reference to docs they have (my wife application).So i applied basically with only my docs .

It is pain to hear that,cause somebody should check with us,cause all my wife details,was on my application.
They have said i could appeal on other grounds eg HR ect.

Could you tell me what to do,cause it is pain,to me and my wife who has EEA3 already ,being here for almost 7 years and we have a lovely daughter ,almost 1.6 years born here,and was granted British passport due to her mother status!!!!!!!!!!

Hope to hear soon

You can seek a reconsideration if you had told them to link your application to that of yours.

Appeal is also a possibility.

Obie wrote:You can seek a reconsideration if you had told them to link your application to that of yours.

Appeal is also a possibility.

On reconsideration should i fill in the forms again ,or send a letter?am confused