And you're the final arbiter in that? Lol ok.
You get really upset when people have views different to yours on this board. You had an ongoing spat with someone else the other day.
I'll repeat: obtaining ILR is a hugely stressful thing. We are all entitled to worry. There is no single way to quantify unnecessary worrying. Someone might argue that all worrying is unncessary.
I choose to be empathetic and connect with people, whatever they're worrying about, and not be the kind of person who minimises other's emotions and dismisses them. That's a pretty crappy thing to do.
Anyways, my responses were on topic - someone asked specifically about other Set(M) people in the same boat as them, and I responded; and also to your question about anyone still waiting who had an in person appt. You didn't specify a date range.
You can come back and try to minimise my worry and 'win the argument' again but I'm not gonna respond. I'm going to keep connecting with people on the forum and supporting them no matter what.
Btw our timelines are very similar + same ILR so will be following your responses closely!
