omonile wrote:Thanks Obie.I am relieved to know that.I know the forum is not divorce forum but it would be highly appreciated if anyone with idea on how to go about the right of access can share the procedure with me as i think the divorce may not get to court but will pursue that within the terms of her divorce petition.
OBIE,PLEASE CHANGE YOUR OCCUPATION IN THE STATUS COLUMN.YOU ARE A TEACHER NOW,NOT A STUDENT.CHEERS!!!!!!
Thanks for the compliment, not sure I am really worthy of such honour, of being called a teacher, but thanks nevertheless.
You are right, that a lot has changed since i joined the forum 6 years back, when i was then a student. However I believe that one never cease learning, and that learning is a life long exercise, so in that regards I am still a Student. But you are correct, I have ceased from being a student in the literal sense of the word.
In regards to Access, you cannot go to the court if both parties agree on arrangement for the child and are complying with it.
In any event, i am not sure the access to the child will assist you much, as you have been married for more than 3 years, prior to the initiation of the petition.
The hurdle of the treaty rights at the time of divorce, is indeed something you will need to overcome, whether you go on the child access route or the 3 years of marriage route.
