hi there thanks for the reply. i've mostly been looking at the two different options open to me, finding a job, or getting married. In terms of employement based visas, what I have gathered from the government websites its the E visas...and i think i would probably qualify under E3 for one of these ...

Hi all, I have been reading through all the various discussions on this forum, and have spent many a day reading through all the options on the Embassy and USCIS and US Government websites and am still feeling a little overwhelmed and was looking for some advice from someone who has been in a ...