I am going on HOLIDAY...so I will check back after a week or two, perhaps someone may be HELPFUL in response....without being judgemental.

You are wasting your time and also
its no point u replying to be judgemental look at your own problems first before you even comment on anyones topic post

unfortunately your assumptions are wrong, the question is clear and has been asked but if you and others are not helpful in responding then that is your frustrations and its better not to reply in posts unless you have something helpful to say, its a waste of my time.

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who is rude you ? looks like ...

thats judgemental He did not break the rules as such and he is not trying to look for a loophole which is why this subject is being broached, we are looking at the best options for us as a couple due to us being in LOVE.. we do not believe in the governments help finacially, Im sure unlike others in ...

I dont think this information is correct as to one month from his country
elaborate ?

well you are wrong, we can actually marry in this country and he could go back home and apply so nothing can stop us from marrying in this country legally even though he has no status as I have been told this by an immigration lawyer..thanks for the link but again, its not relevant to this apart ...

haha haaaaaaaaa to thos e unhelpful replies my status is I am BRITISH we do not have a child pls do not respond to my post if you are dearly beloved or judgemental the case is not that complicated as many overstayers get their foot in the door here into the uk... COME ON GUYS ... oh by the way i can ...

Hello What documents do you need when applying for discretionary leave if you are in a relationship with someone in the uk, relationship has passed a year, some proofs like pics from last april and emails from last march, not married and you can not go back to your home country and claiming asylum ...

lol thanks...unfortunately its the unsure road ahead which makes me but yes this is good to help.thsi forum...but i can not stand to be apart from him now let alone if we were to separate so i havent taken any decision on the road next but ....thanks and tc..x

sorry thanks for the reminder... wow thats so silly...maybe they just want you to put money into their golden pot for the fees to apply from back home ..and create jobs for the ECO's...wow...how silly after all that they said no but now yes...what a waste of everyones time..........and money.....its ...

ok so u were here....and married so how come u went back........

lol...about the pictures...is that what the eco said they could have been taken in a day..he most be a keen photographer when hes out and can take 500 a pics at a time thats why LOL oh well at least you can laugh about it now.... yes joint bills it is to start keeping although he moved in in may and ...

well done lucy helpful info we have just one bill in JOINT NAMES since october 2011 Elec and Gas bill and after reading your post perhaps I should put more bills on his name, so its okay to have joint name bills..or just his ? as he has no l status as such in the uk how can I put him on the electrol ...

Hi I wonder if anyone can answer the following How much do you need to show in your account or earn for sponsoring your spouse from abroad? photos - so we have a few key pics like xmas and our first date type of pics...with family bills - one bill in his name.. proof from other people...? every ...

Hi Congratulations to all of you that won on appeal. Chimpee I wonder if you could be of help, I really think you have done a wonderful job and hope you are celebrating ! I have been following this discussion board and its great to see success. How did you prove the relationship was genuine to the ...