after pushing a little I got the following reply
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I wish to confirm that a letter of invitation for your wife
and child is not required as you are not resident
in Ireland.
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Can someone clarify, does the following EU law/rights derived from 2004/38 cover EU family members, wife and child ,family living outside the EU Looking for visit visa to Ireland in the company of the EU citizen. http://ec.europa.eu/youreurope/nav/en/citizens/living/entry-procedures/for-family-membe...