ILR- Domestic Violence!
Posted: Tue Jun 06, 2017 12:18 pm
I got married in October 2013. She tried to create or be mellow dramatic about things and try to create an episode of domestic violence against me.
I understood the game and became vigilant. I wrote to HO asking to curtail leave, they decided not to do this; I understand it is their discretion.
In any event, the episode did not stop there. She went back home in 2015 and I decided to divorce her in foreign divorce. However, she turned up at my home address trying to provoke me into hitting her. Unfortunately, for her, this did not happen. Police attended and all episode was recorded as me being the victim. However, no charges were pursued. The police told her to be on her way and do not return to the property or she will be arrested for breach of peace.
My home got raided 3 months after the above and I was investigated for domestic violence, false imprisonment, assault, battery and some other offences.
I voluntarily attended the Police Station (as I am not intimidated). I gave interview and invited the police to bring charges against me. However, after 8 months of "investigations" - no charges were ever brought up against me. So, in short, I was never arrested nor charged. I have a letter from police indicating that.
My ex then issued a divorce petition in the UK which I disputed on jurisdictional grounds. She said in Court that she has got ILR. Although, when the judge asked her to show this, she said she did not have it on her. Further, she said it is very important for her to obtain "english" divorce which makes me wonder that she is looking to re-marry in the UK. This is fine, I do not really care, but if she has had ILR then she wouldn't need an "english" divorce etc.
This makes me wonder as to how is it possible for her to obtain ILR when I was never charged/arrested or there is no evidence of Domestic Violence against me or family.
Is it possible she is lying? If DV was this easy, I would be surprised or will call this ridiculous.
I understood the game and became vigilant. I wrote to HO asking to curtail leave, they decided not to do this; I understand it is their discretion.
In any event, the episode did not stop there. She went back home in 2015 and I decided to divorce her in foreign divorce. However, she turned up at my home address trying to provoke me into hitting her. Unfortunately, for her, this did not happen. Police attended and all episode was recorded as me being the victim. However, no charges were pursued. The police told her to be on her way and do not return to the property or she will be arrested for breach of peace.
My home got raided 3 months after the above and I was investigated for domestic violence, false imprisonment, assault, battery and some other offences.
I voluntarily attended the Police Station (as I am not intimidated). I gave interview and invited the police to bring charges against me. However, after 8 months of "investigations" - no charges were ever brought up against me. So, in short, I was never arrested nor charged. I have a letter from police indicating that.
My ex then issued a divorce petition in the UK which I disputed on jurisdictional grounds. She said in Court that she has got ILR. Although, when the judge asked her to show this, she said she did not have it on her. Further, she said it is very important for her to obtain "english" divorce which makes me wonder that she is looking to re-marry in the UK. This is fine, I do not really care, but if she has had ILR then she wouldn't need an "english" divorce etc.
This makes me wonder as to how is it possible for her to obtain ILR when I was never charged/arrested or there is no evidence of Domestic Violence against me or family.
Is it possible she is lying? If DV was this easy, I would be surprised or will call this ridiculous.