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At Breaking Point - I don't know what to do now

Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 4:17 pm
by Ndeiya
I have been in UK for over 16 years now initially of a five year student entry clearance and after two years found myself doing all sort of jobs on a student work permit issued by the then jobcentre. I was then offered a permanent job developed quickly, management team noticed of my potential and got promoted to senior key positions until now, fired due to lack of RTW and others….!!! On the personal conduct and activities; I was fined for driving a vehicle without insurance & mot and a fixed penalty for driving on a bus lane back in 2000, also had a CCJ against me in 2002. Additionally, I met my fiancée who is Polish, engaged, and now have a lovely daughter aged of one year. Given these scenarios, what can you advice is the best way forward. My fiancée and I have agreed to apply for ILR under the 14 year rule but I feel there some uncertainties given the circumstances at hand. I am as well quiet worried of the finances as I will no longer be able to work pending the application outcome. I would really be glad if you can advice the best way forward

Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 4:38 pm
by Wanderer
I think ur best option is to marry and apply as the family member of an EEA citizen exercising a treaty right.

He has to be working or studying here, application is free and no need to return to ur home country.

Search here and Google EEA Family Permit, read in inwardly digest and come back to us.

Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 4:44 pm
by Ndeiya
thank you for the prompt response, I shall heed to you guidance

Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 5:20 pm
by Ndeiya
I am confused having read in detail;-
http://www.ukba.homeoffice.gov.uk/sitec ... iew=Binary

One law firm tells me ILR is the best option. The document on the above link is non wiser.

I am cracking down now

Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 5:21 pm
by Ndeiya
Some body breakdown the HO jargon for me... what do I do?

Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 6:16 pm
by Ndeiya
Any specialist out there online on a chilly saturday evening

Posted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 4:07 pm
by Ndeiya
I have had so many bad experiences in life from the age of 4/5 when I can clearly remember everything, since then have experienced every sort of degrading, inhumane situations and when I finally thought of having achieved something in the life after 4/5, I made the biggest mistake I could have ever imagined under duress and a moment of mad thinking. I can no longer continue to feel sorry for being a human being in this world... I thought this forum would give shed a light in the right direction but yet non forthcoming. How can I ever forgive or explain it my little girl!...

Posted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 4:21 pm
by Rozen
Ndeiya wrote:I thought this forum would give shed a light in the right direction but yet non forthcoming....
Did you read Wanderer's advice on applying under EU Law? :roll:

Posted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 4:46 pm
by Ndeiya
I did yes, but there are sticking points alike, we are not yet married and that requires applying for too and now I realise what deep trouble I am in for mispresentation of vital docs

Posted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 6:26 pm
by BLK235
For how long you and your fiancee lived together?

Posted: Sun Jan 24, 2010 6:36 pm
by Ndeiya
5 years

Posted: Mon Jan 25, 2010 1:17 am
by Plum70
Wanderer wrote:Search here and Google EEA Family Permit, read in inwardly digest and come back to us.
Wanderer did you not mean - 'UK Residence Card'? The OP will not need a EEA Family Permit from within the UK.

We don't want s/he any more confused than already is! :)

Posted: Mon Jan 25, 2010 2:28 am
by Wanderer
Plum70 wrote:
Wanderer wrote:Search here and Google EEA Family Permit, read in inwardly digest and come back to us.
Wanderer did you not mean - 'UK Residence Card'? The OP will not need a EEA Family Permit from within the UK.

We don't want s/he any more confused than already is! :)
I was just giving the OP sth to google!

Posted: Mon Jan 25, 2010 9:23 am
by BLK235
Have you considered applying as an unmarried partner under EU route?

Marrying would put you in stronger position that is of course if you were thinking of getting married anyway. For you to get married in the UK might prove quite difficult. Perhaps you want to do it in Poland or in the country you are from.

ILR under 14 years rule is very lengthy. It can easily take 2 years +.