EEA2 - Not longer together
Posted: Fri Feb 19, 2010 11:01 am
Hello
I hope you can help me with this enquiery. I am on an EEA2 family permit I got married a year ago. I have been in a relationship for 3 years, before that I overstayed my visa, however I was granted eea2 just about a week ago, the sadest thing is that during the three years I had the most amazing time of my life with my partner, after our marriage everything became a nightmare. The jelousy damage our relation til the point that I decided to move out, and i am not longer living with my EEA partner. everything happened during the 14 months that I was waiting my permit. at the end of the last year I met an english guy, he was so understanding in how devastating I was for everything, now we are living together as I fall in love with him.
He is concern as at the moment I have to rely on my EU partner for everything , however the terms that we finished the relatrionship were the worst ever. about a month ago my husband and me met to talk and I told about my new relation, he was a bit upset but at the end he understood, now that we are not living together and not longer together as a couple seems that we do quite well, we sad he will help me, how ever I wouldnt like to rely on that, neither rush on a new marriage.
I have started living with my british partner since december and I have back my passport just recently. my question is, what can i do to dont rely on my EU partner in the matter of my inmigration, as that in one way bothers my british boyfriend , and my other question my boyfriend is keen to help me in any possible way but i dont want to rush in a marriage just yet besides I have to get divorced before that so is the Durable relationship an option for me?
I would appreciate any help as I am in a bit of a hell as I dont want to hurt any of both and I believe I am hurting my boyfriend being dependent of my ex partner.
I hope you can help me with this enquiery. I am on an EEA2 family permit I got married a year ago. I have been in a relationship for 3 years, before that I overstayed my visa, however I was granted eea2 just about a week ago, the sadest thing is that during the three years I had the most amazing time of my life with my partner, after our marriage everything became a nightmare. The jelousy damage our relation til the point that I decided to move out, and i am not longer living with my EEA partner. everything happened during the 14 months that I was waiting my permit. at the end of the last year I met an english guy, he was so understanding in how devastating I was for everything, now we are living together as I fall in love with him.
He is concern as at the moment I have to rely on my EU partner for everything , however the terms that we finished the relatrionship were the worst ever. about a month ago my husband and me met to talk and I told about my new relation, he was a bit upset but at the end he understood, now that we are not living together and not longer together as a couple seems that we do quite well, we sad he will help me, how ever I wouldnt like to rely on that, neither rush on a new marriage.
I have started living with my british partner since december and I have back my passport just recently. my question is, what can i do to dont rely on my EU partner in the matter of my inmigration, as that in one way bothers my british boyfriend , and my other question my boyfriend is keen to help me in any possible way but i dont want to rush in a marriage just yet besides I have to get divorced before that so is the Durable relationship an option for me?
I would appreciate any help as I am in a bit of a hell as I dont want to hurt any of both and I believe I am hurting my boyfriend being dependent of my ex partner.