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by ZUzu_fly » Fri Sep 29, 2023 6:54 pm
Hi all
I am an EU citizen settled in UK, have been living here for 14 years. I have a good career and a child from a previous marriage who is British. My current partner is an overstayer, having entered on visitor visa and then got Covid and could not return due to having no funds left. We have been together for 2 years and cohabiting for 1.2 years. We have a 6 month baby together who is a British citizen.
I suffer with low mood and big memory problems +anxiety as I lost both my parents within the space of 2 years after long period of illness due to cancer. I rely heavily on my parter to help me remember things. My condition is medicated and I have my medical records and prescriptions to show this. I have proof the children live with us, their passports and birth certificates. I have some bills in both our names and my partner is on the council tax bill but financially he doesn't have liability for anything as he doesn't have the right to work. I am his sponsor and earn well above the threshold required. Now, my daughter form previous marriage is 7 and she cannot legally travel outside the country because I do not havea child arrangement order in place from the courts. I simply don't have the means to get this as I do not have unlimited funds. Thus the question on the family unit relocating to my partner s african country is out of the question. Also, my daughter has no contact with bio father, my partner is her de facto father and does school runs with her. We have drawings and cards and pictures to proce parental relatinlonship with her. My son is obviously a baby and needs his father so separating us would be unduly harsh as: 1) my mental health would deteriorate even more and I couldn't cope , 2) my partner looks after the baby while I work full time, him being gone will plunge me into poverty as I can't afford massive childcare bill, 3) my daughter will lose the only father she has. Also, I could not be outside of the UK for more than 5 years, even if I could hypothetically relocate, as I would lose my settles status and right to NHS for which I pay. It seems u justifiably harsh to unravel our whole lives just because my partner overstayed.
Do you think given the above, my partner has a chance to get visa on 10 year route ?
Thanks a lot