I am terribly sorry to read of your misfortune. I plead with you to remain calm - as far fetched as this may sound but only then can you start putting concrete plans in place There are lawyers out there that can help on a pro bono basis if money is an issue.
It's not easy being in an abusive relationship where an infant is involved. Well abuse is abuse whether low level or what ever level it's still abuse and usually has a psychological and profound bearing on an individual for many years to come. So don't rule it out as evidence. Be strong for your baby for it depends entirely on you emotionally physically etc I don't need to tell you this as you know it already.
On what grounds was your asylum case refused if you don't mind me asking ? Further more you had a refusal of the FLR(M) and you mentioned lack of supporting financial evidence as a reason? I am very hopeful you can solve the problem by submitting an FLR(O) application. Have you spoken to any Lawyers yet? Perhaps that's the first step I would encourage you to do.
Just one more quick question, if I may, in your appeals process you abandoned were your counsel going to invoke article 8?[/quote]
There was a nationality dispute on my asylum case as the HO was arguing that i was not from my country of origion despite submitting all my birth certifiicates ,speaking my home language and passing their nationality test.They insisted that i was entitled to the bad quality passport i used to travel to the uk there was an error of law in my case but i did not follow it up as i had a bad experience when i was i detention.I was strip searched infornt of male officers and was restrained forcibly yet i was not bein disruptive.This was because i had slashed my wrists with a blade i found in the holding centre and one of the officers cut his hand trying to force my hand open to take the blade and he thought i had given him aids as i was african.It was a crazy incident ,it left me traumatised and i basically just gave up on my case as i didnt want the same thing to happen to me again.I got an apology from the home office though.
i only came in contact with the HO recently when i made my flrm which was declined. My JR was going to be on the basis of my partner and child (article

@Indie007. You're circumstance is very heartbreaking but have no fear. Things will work out. I've just remembered that before I joined this thread, I was doing some research on how I can be assisted by the authorities as I was close to being destitute ( which I still am. My family and I are surviving by the skin of our teeth). I came across a site called NRPF( No Recourse to Public Funds) It helps people in our situation. There are a variety of organisations which fall under NRPF. Have a browse on the net and see if they or their sister organisation can help. I haven't approached them yet as my situation improved slightly but I believe in the next couple of months I will do so as my situation is deteriorating quickly! I hope that helps. Have a look at the link below.
http://www.nrpfnetwork.org.uk/guidance/ ... fault.aspx