Izo wrote: ↑Tue Mar 27, 2018 3:51 pm
Omg really that sounds so bad no human deserves to be treated in such a way, that said there other ways you can seek help and if your application is on the basis of staying with him the govement provide legal avenues to protect women in your situation in order for you to apply and remain as a victim of domestic violence.
https://www.gov.uk/government/publicati ... form-setdv
On this web site you will find help on how you can lleaglise your status with out depending on him you don’t have to put up to violence stand up to it before it’s to late you will and take your time in finding some one who will truly appreciate you for who you are not put u down.
I have seen members in this group who have had difficulty proving DV and they get refusal given that they can't produce conducive evidences so that's why l just opted to persevere.
I know Olumba told me to give HO time given that l called them yesterday but to be sincere everyday to me is a struggle. So today morning l got up and sent an email to my MP and just explained myself without hiding anything.Then l called HO afterwards and told them l really need help and l just told them everything the person l was talking with was trying to advice me to go through the Domestic violence
route or seek accommodation l just told her l just need my case escalated for now cause l don't want to start another long
route.She said from the system it shows my case was escalated yesterday.
Then at 12pm l got a call from an assistant to the mp saying the mp is in parliament he asked me everything l told him and he said if l want they can helpme sort out accommodation.l told him that's a big move l would like 1st for my case to be escalated cz maybe that way my husband will respect me when l hv my status. In the end he just said it's shocking what my husband is putting m through but he will do as l instructed them.
Then in the evening l got an email from the mp saying they hv contacted the HO to expedite my case and she will contact me once she hears from HO.
So now all l can do is just wait and spend most of the time outside the house for purposes of peace as time ticks.
Thanks to everyone who shared there advice to me regarding my plight.l know almost everyone here have there own issues and struggles and that's why am greatful for all your time.