
Anyway, as for my question, my US boyfriend (20) will be visiting me (21, in the UK) for 3 months on Friday. He visited for 3 weeks in September 2016 and I visited him for 3 months in America from February to the end of April this year. We weren't so prepared for these trips, so naturally we were questioned at the border but everything turned out luckily great in the end. However, due to these experiences, I am very nervous about his trip this time round. I have no reason to be nervous really, but I have a lot of anxiety and just want to be sure that it will be okay.
The main worry is the financial side of things. He has around £1000 saved up in cash from a job he just finished. He got this job just to save up what he could for the trip. He's not a student and lives with family. However, I am planning on writing a letter and including my bank statement, to show that I will support him too. I'm unemployed but I have a lot of inheritance money, and it is more than enough to support him. Will this be okay? But, this also means that he doesn't have much to show for ties to his home country. He obviously does plan on going back home again but I'm not sure how to prove this apart from proof of the return ticket. Will this be enough?
He plans to tell the staff that he is here to visit me (his girlfriend) and my family, and for sightseeing. We also have other plans such as going to a festival, which he will have proof of with tickets. I will become a student in September, and would love his support through the beginning terms. Is this also okay? We do not plan whatsoever on lying to them.
He will be living with me and my Dad in my hometown for the first week, and for the rest of the trip he will be living with me in my flat in the town I will be studying in. He will note down both addresses, and mine and my Dads phone numbers.
We do have plans for marrying in the future, and applying for settlement visas etc. but only legally! And we definitely wont marry on this trip. I just hope they believe us.
So yeah, apologies for the long message but I really need to calm down before Friday and make sure we can both answer questions confidently. Any advice would be much appreciated.
Thank you so much!!