I will try to describe our situation into details. I am EEA national..I come from Slovakia and I have been in England since May 2008. Unfortunately, I havent applied for Worker Registration Scheme, yet, as I thought my last employer would do so, as he kept my form that I filled in. I forgot about it and after almost six months that I had been working there I found out that my employer wouldnt apply for me. I left the job before I was able to do so and after that I was almost 1 month without work. Now, in January I got a new job and I am about to send the form to Home Office. To be honest, I planned to stay in England just for few months, as I am an university student in Slovakia.
In October 2008 I met my boyfriend (non EEA national) who has been in England since March 2008 and he came with his tourist visa that are valid for 6 months. So basically approximately in August his visa expired and he has been illegal in England since that time.
We have been a couple just for 4 months but as we have been together every single day and night, we feel like we have known each other for ages. I love him but I dont want to spend years in England and since he met me, I think he doesnt want neither, especially when he knows I want to go back to my country.
But as his visa is no longer valid, we cant go anywhere abroad together.
We dont want to get married just to make his stay legal, our relationship is genuine and we really love each other and in normal situation I could wait with marriage although for his religion marriage is important.
Therefore, my first question is whether we have to get married to legalize his stay and be able to leave England later together?
And if yes, what do we have to do, if we want to get married but he is not legal here now?
(As I read, I think he needs to get Certificate of approval, then we have to give Notice of marriage, but please, understand that I dont want to risk that after Home office or any other organisation finds out that his passport doesnt have valid visa, they would send him back to his country
Unfortunately, we havent got any proof in form of for example bills that we have been together since October till December as we lived in a shared house (staff house) and we didnt have to sign any contract.
Can somebody please explain me what actions do we have to take if we want to get married and then legalize his stay?
Thank you so much for advice and sorry for my English, I tried my best to explain the situation, hopefully I did it right.



