Well if you don't tick that box, and provide no evidence of pre-marriage contact then that will certainly raise an eyebrowkaidee wrote:Lol, I remember East is East: "Bastar Bitch!"batleykhan wrote:Watch a British rubbish called East is East. There is a scene in there where Mr khans best friends daughters have been invited to meet the boys for the first time........now that is what I called arranged marriage rather than bollywood crap you seem to watchkaidee wrote:Any comments/thoughts on the VAF4A form asking if the marriage was an arranged marriage? (8.4.9)
Would a marriage through a mutual acquaintance (friend, family member, marriage bureau etc...) introducing two families count as an arranged marriage?
I've sort of forgotten what an arranged marriage actually is! Maybe need a few more Bolly/Lolly -wood 3 hour extravaganzas to remind me ...![]()
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On the serious side an arranged marriage is where both parents do all the legwork for you to say yay or nay.
A love marriage is where you dont give a damn what the parents say and you do everything your self.
A Forced marriage is where you have been forced to marry against your will to someone you dont want to get married to.
Now all you have to decide is which one applys to you![]()
Thanks for your reply. For the record I don't watch Bolly or LollyI've just had an abusive childhood!
Is there any negativity associated with ticking the arranged marriage box? My mother did the running around for me, all I did was say 'Woohoo! Yeesss ppleeeaase!' Both me and the girl were happy - but no love marriage.
