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by yamcheka » Tue Aug 23, 2011 1:12 pm
I know my husband Oct. 2006,we met in person Nov.,2006 and get married Feb,2007. After a year he visited me during our first wedding anniversary. after that we planned to apply but it was not pushed through because we were financially tight during the economic crisis yr2009. He's got payslips which i can show that traveling during those period was unrealistic. and i know the UK govt have known that was a down time for most of us. Later part of the 2010, we talked about that was the good time for us to apply. I was also hesitant coz that was my first application i had research what are the docs we need to support our application, never the less, during those time that we were apart i was able to support that our communication through emails, letters, phone calls, skype conversations and calls and sms. i also include some of the money transfer receipts to show them that i am his dependent, photos during those visits. though my husband's visits only lasted for 2 weeks or more coz that was the allowed holiday for him that time.
the decision:
YOU MARRIED YOUR HUNGARIAN HUSBAND IN THE PHILIPPINES IN FEB2007. HE HAS VISITED YOU ONLY ONCE SINCE THAT TIME, FOR 13 DAYS IN FEBRUARY 2008. YOU HAVE NOT EXPLAINED WHY NEITHER OF YOU HAVE MADE PLANS TO VISIT EACH OTHER SINCE THAT TIME. I ACKNOWLEDGE SOME FINANCIAL DEPENDENCY UPON YOUR HUSBAND AND THERE ARE SOME CARDS AND OTHER EVIDENCE OF INTERVENING DEVOTION (PHONE BILLS) IN YOUR APPLICATION, BUT OUTWEIGHING THESE FACTORS IS THE FACT THAT YOU HAVE NOT ATTEMPTED TO SEE EACH OTHER FOR NEARLY 3.5 YEARS. ON THE BALANCE OF PROBABILITIES THEREFORE, I AM NOT SATISFIED THAT YOU HAVE ADEQUATELY EVIDENCED ANY FORM OF COHABITATION OR THAT THIS IS SUBSISTING AND THAT YOU INTEND TO LIVE TOGETHER IN THE UK AS HUSBAND AND WIFE.
how can we prove that we are in genuine marriage and that we intend to live together in UK if they never give us chance to be together? Pls. advice me what is the best steps. thank you for your reply.
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