I know, living in this limbo is the most frustrating thing that could happen in ones life. The major mistake i made during our own hearing was that when i was asked the last time my wife visited my home country, i didn't state the correct year, due to the tension and fright, i said a different year, but i also specified that i never had a good relationship with my father, and he intact is not aware that i am now married, but judge never mentioned anything about us going back to live outside the UK, all he was worried about were the discrepancies in our answers, which he said made him doubt our relationship.icehouse256 wrote:We made the mistake of saying my husband's family supported our marriage, so the judge said I could leave my education and relocate. The judged acknowledged that Pakistan is dangerous but I could just avoid the dangerous places (is that possible? lol) Judge basically told us to move abroad.flozo64 wrote:@flozo64: Be positive, and you don't worry....you have a strong chance because you have a BC...just keep praying and being positive. When you went to the first tier tribunal, i suppose you were being asked questions in regards to your relationship with your partner ? That was what we encountered, it was more or less like we were invited for an interview by the HO. They asked questions that would make the judge doubt our relationship, to be sincere, i never expected that we would be asked questions based on our everyday life etc.....we were frightened and some of our answers were mismatched.icehouse256 wrote:Yes it was financial too. I am now working full time but still below the threshold.
So this time we used a solicitor and didn't mention his family at all.
Praying for a good result, living in limbo is hard. Hopefully we both get our freedom soon...
As regard to the judge asking you to go back to Pakistan after acknowledging it himself that it was dangerous is what i don't understand, but i don't think thats reason enough for you to have any problem this time. There is nothing impossible for God to do, i know you and i will share our good news here soon.[/quote]
I think this time we should both get a good result, people keep saying it will happen eventually, it's just the waiting which is so hard. Don't worry proving relationship shouldn't be too hard this time. But I know how you feel, in front of the judge was horrible and I was only asked three questions. Keep us updated on your application!