God's Authority wrote:Hello everyone, it's me again. It's been a while since I have been here. Thanks to everyone for keeping this thread going, I cannot imagine how things will be like without a support network such as this.
Please can I moan a little? Am just frustrated, i am so scared I will lose everything I have got, no thanks to the way ukba has been playing with our lives. It's unfair. I called this morning and after being on hold for 20 mins, i get told my application has not been allocated to a case worker yet, after 10 months?! It's going to be a gear in October and I am beginning to see myself sitting on a three legged stool which wil give way anytime. Am just tired. I asked if there is a time frame for completion and lady said, "they told us they would aim to reduce it by end of summer but I mean it's end of summer already so I have no idea what to say to you anymore".
This is so depressing, i have just never felt so hopeless all my life, I have to dodge certain people at work cos of this, cos I feel so ashamed and inferior, might be worse cos am pregnant but I just feel they treating people so awful at ukba and it's like violating us as human beings perhaps they feel we are at their mercy?!
Intervene oh Lord, let us not be put to shame cos this is getting too much to bear. *sobs*
Awwwh you little sweetie!!! Of course your more than welcome to moan, rant and generally express whatever you feel like on here!!! xx
In addition to this feel free to indulge into some therapeutic virtual chair, table, bathroom sink throwing!!
Making rude ukba jokes also helps!!! heeheee
You are a strong warrior princess, hey you been through a lot, plus you re carrying a mini-jedi!!!!
Write to your MP darling, tell him everything you said on here- about your daughter's condition, your unborn jedi, everything! He should be able to help.
PS As an afterthought.... is there a charity that supports research into your daughter's condition? If so, get in touch with them!!!