Well I'm shocked they asked such personal questions, that is totally unfair and a feel for the poor guy.Mrs N wrote:
Hello
I remember reading a post u put a few days ago about applying via DLA but i couldnt find the post again so i was hoping u would come forward lol
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i hope ive helped in some way
Well i married my cousin aswell LOL, as u do. I gave all the evidence of my DLA and bank statements and also I work part time aswell so I gave 1 wage slip as my lawyer said that would be enough and a bank statement. Reason I only gave 1 bank statement was because I just started work there because my lawyer said it would strengthen my case if I worked part time.
My marriage was also arranged and I wrote that on the application form. I'm not worried about being questioned or anything as everything is real.
The only thing I don't understand is that it's been 3 months since I handed the case in, and since I am exempt from the financial rules, shouldn't I have heard anything back quicker?
I am hoping to hear back within the next 4 weeks, if not am heading to Pakistan because a miss my wife, its only been 2 months since I've been back but a miss her so am hoping to go back middle of February or early March.
I've not contacted my MP or emailed BHC as I think the average wait is about 4 months as many September applicant and early October applicant are hearing back, so I'm hoping we should get a response before mid February.
Just thought people exempt from the financial rules may hear back quick as there is less work to be done on the case.
And yeah I get the thing about apne telling everyone everything LOL, it's a nightmare honestly, chinese whispers