avjones wrote:You were the ones who thought lying through your teeth was a Good Idea. That's not all the Home Office's fault, is it?
Sometime out of fear and for love people do stupid things.
There is a difference between lying and getting my human right seized.
They can charge me for lying but they should not deny me my human right.
Especially when they have given me the permission in the first palce.
I was at the town hall to get married on Thursday.
They knew that he was illegal the weeks and days before that.
He went to sign with HO every two weeks.
Why would they let me book the wedding and pay for it and then come and stop it?
Because I lied? That's how they punish me? They are no judge. No reason to apply lynch justice. They could have arrested him a day before. a week before or a day after.
Even though we lied, we did not hurt anybody.
Never claimed any money since I came here.
Never committed a crime.
But to enter illegal in this country is a more serious crime than rape or murder.
I have made my mistake, I am paying for it.
Poking the wound is rather contrahelpful than encouraging.
We didn't kill somebody and take nobody's space. All we want is to be together and we are really suffering so digging out old posts and point a finger is just....
Tell me something I dont know. Not what I know.
Dont forget the fact that we are married already and the HO is not always honest either. they make up stories or are unable to count the weeks from 15/05 to 02/06. cause they say that is more than one month. They also say I have not been exercising my treaty right which is a lie. I am here since 2004 and have a mortgage as well as p60s since 2004 and they say i am not settled.
they say he should proof that he has no contact to his family.
how can you prove NO contact?
if you say yo u have no contact they want you to prove, if you will want a family to come you have to prove that they are your family.
They bend the truth the way it suits them.
They buy tickets for people who have banns on removal and say judges will decide in their favor anyway.
They arrest a Latvian and say Latvia is not in the EU.
They wanna deport a pole and say he is a criminal even though no evidence was submitted in court.
A Jamaican is getting deported because his wife after 2.5 years decides to call the HO to tell them it is not a sustainable relationship because she saw a picture of him and a girl. They arrested him out of his wife's bed. Not one time listening to his side of the story. not questioning how this is not a real relationship but they are sleeping in the same bed.
They ambush people with the intention to deport them and they deny people their human right.
So how are they any better than someone telling a white lie about how they met?
They are hurting people. My lie did not hurt anyone.
HO is intimidating and ignorant
Of course I have to be worried that if I don't tell a lie about my relationship they will accuse me of a sham straight away.
Because that's all they do! Making life hard for people.