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by LISACANO » Sun Apr 11, 2010 3:47 pm
Hi
Thank you very much for replying.
We are only just applying now as we have not had the money to buy his passport and pay for the visa. Also, I had quite a large amount of debt and I have been working 4 jobs for the past year to clear it.
It has mainly been me stalling because I wanted to be financially secure and settled in my life before trying to tell the Visa people that I could emotionally and financially support my husband.
I now feel in a better position and more positive for my life, which I believe will help towards our future. I have never rushed in this relationship because I believe we will always be together and didn't see a year as being a problem to wait to be together if it meant me being more secure.
Hope this makes sense, what do you think? I want to be as honest and accurate as possible on the application and explain why we have waited.
We have always thought automatically it would be turkey we would settle (just down to their way of life, I'm not thrilled with the english way) but there is no financially security there in the immediate future for us, my husband finds it very difficult to find employment as he has little education. The holiday resorts are very undercut when it comes to their staff (definitly not the most honest people he could work for) His criminal record is also a problem with finding employment.
I am quite logical and sensible, I try not to let my heart rule my head and my mum always taught me to think things through and then plan accordingly x