can someone help plz

[sobhi]

i just got a letter from the home office today curtailed my discretionary visa.
my wife was claiming benefits which i did not understand. She also told the council that i was staying with friends a few nights a week and with her other nights, she did this because she believed my status would not affect her benefits claims to begin with as i was on a student visa which ran out and then i was classed as an overstayer for almost 10 months before my first discretionary visa was issued. she suffers terribly from anxiety and depression and was afraid that i would be sent back home and leave her alone without any means of support.
my initial discretionary visa was granted in 2011.
The council have found that i was living with my wife at our address and have taken action to recover the overpayments of benefits that my wife received but in the letter from the home office it states that i was not living with my wife and therefore have no right to stay..
I have paid back all of the council tax that was owed and have begun to pay back the housing benefit that she received.
How can i be living with my wife for the council but not for the home office.. this is not right and not possible .. but this is what has happened..

[julian1972]

i just got a letter from the home office today curtailed my discretionary visa.
my wife was claiming benefits which i did not understand. She also told the council that i was staying with friends a few nights a week and with her other nights, she did this because she believed my status would not affect her benefits claims to begin with as i was on a student visa which ran out and then i was classed as an overstayer for almost 10 months before my first discretionary visa was issued. she suffers terribly from anxiety and depression and was afraid that i would be sent back home and leave her alone without any means of support.
my initial discretionary visa was granted in 2011.
The council have found that i was living with my wife at our address and have taken action to recover the overpayments of benefits that my wife received but in the letter from the home office it states that i was not living with my wife and therefore have no right to stay..
I have paid back all of the council tax that was owed and have begun to pay back the housing benefit that she received.
How can i be living with my wife for the council but not for the home office.. this is not right and not possible .. but this is what has happened..

Your wife or someone else has probably informed the Home Office that you don't live together with your wife or that your marriage is no longer subsisting.

[sobhi]

not my wife for sure we together 7 years the council did

[PrestonLancs]

So, because she had terrible anxiety, and because she feared you will be sent back home, she decided to tell lies to council, and with you full knowledge?

You have got to be kidding to say you did not understand the benefits.

[Obie]

Local authorities don't coordinate with home office in this way. Someone would have definitely told home office something.

[julian1972]

Local authorities don't coordinate with home office in this way. Someone would have definitely told home office something.

I thought exactly the same. However long you've been with your wife don't trust anybody 100%.

When I had problems with my wife the first thing that crossed her mind was to call the Home Office and her brother was pushing her to do it, thankfully she didn't. Forgetting that when we got married 7 years ago neither of us had visas, for 10 years that we've been together I've been a father to her child without having my own child.

In a relationship when one person has status and the other person doesn't, the person that has has the bargaining power and dictate what happens in the relationship.

If I were you I would be suspicious. Someone close to you has reported you!

[sobhi]

hello home office curtailment my leave 6 months a go and i have to claim and i had interview they refused me and they granted me 10 years Family Life and my MP spoke with home office about reconsider my old visa they ask for some deviance i sent it to Manchester curtailment team home office my question it will be different cases cos i didn't have any news yet from curtailment team yet and if they accepted the request what will happen many thanks