*Y3NVY* wrote:zully i dont think its about people marrying here or there...the topic was about processing times and what they meant as there was a little confusion about that
some people on here got married at the time were visas were being granted within 3 weeks of the application being submitted..so yeh people do get there hopes up a little...i do at times aswell..times are hard for some and not so hard for others..its a little unfair to question why people got married in pakistan if they couldnt deal with this wait..or all they were going to do is complain!
i no its difficult but we just got to stay patient...believe me i no how hard it is but we have to
sorry if ive offended anyone....blame it on the heat!!

Don't apologise... I think the point that I'm trying to make is it is hard
It's not easy for anyone but I think one member
Is taking it a little far with abusing the Bhc. I'm sure there
Doing their job instead of wasting energy on getting angry
At them. Use that time in something productive I'm sure the time
Will pass quickly. Times have changed for the embassy or they are
Dealing with more cases causing a back log. They have to do their
Checks we should be patient that's all.
But you are right our heart says something different from our mind.