Guerro wrote:mcovet wrote:Guerro, just ignore the likes of the guy above. Poor English and dim... plenty of those on here.
Getting back to your subject. In brief, you are safe regardless of what your wife says. The only way you could get affected is if she leaves the UK permanently (even this is debatable and to lose her residence in the UK she would need to be gone for for 2 years).
Anyway, since she doesn't need to exercise Treaty rights anymore and if worse comes to the worst you divorce, you would have been married for over 3 years (since Aug 2008) and at the time of divorce she was legally in the UK, and you would simply have to keep working in order to retain the right of residence.
In your situation, quite frankly, the only thing you have to worry about is your marriage and if it is working etc. as regards immigration, DO NOT WORRY! as I said, even if she does make a scene wherever and whenever, it is not up to her to decide whether you stay or go in the UK.
SHE CANNOT DO A-NY-THING!!!!! Do not let her scare you easily. Just tell her that you know your rights and as much as she can try to use this argument, it is of no effect, fortunately. Sad and shameful of her, to be honest, to play this card, you must really feel insulted when she brings this up.
So, go to Portugal, enjoy yourself and never worry for a second about your immigration status, you are virtually immune!
Thanks a lot for your reply. Actually, i'm worried about the marriage as I don't want to separate from her and I do lots of things for her, and she does as well for me. Unfortunately, she becomes crazy sometimes but get back to normal.
As you said, I felt really insulted by her comments and only God knows how it hurts. I just hope we enjoy the holiday.
Finally, I believe I don't need a visa to enter portugal with her for 4 days, do I?
It was from phone I sent it, maybe error someway or the other Mr. English Teacher. Well I am not judging him, but why a wife that Love you will threaten you with Deportation, it is funny to me. Every time you fight she threatens you with deportation, what is her excuse? do she have any evidence against him, or has she did something wrong with him? that was my opinion, this is no Love if you are been threaten with deportation as if you begged her to marry you so you can stay in the country or Europe. ''F'' that.
I know she cannot deport you if she do not have any evidence against you but threaten with deportation is out of marriage, this is slavery. Do this for me, wash that for me, I do what ever I like, clean the house, cook for me, you cannot question me, you may be my husband it is just a paper for you to stay in uk and if you question my authority and try to behave like a husband I will deport you,. Nonsense, a Big Fat Gipsy Lie.
I am SORRY to have made a comment, I was supporting you maybe in a wrong way and am again SORRY for that. But am angry with the threaten of that deportation, maybe she thinks this is her time in control before you gain your permanent residence. I may yet to have my papers because I just decided to apply for it now but my wife respect me, she cook for me, wash for me, plays with me, do all what husband and wife do, respect me and has never talk down to me for the past 3yrs we have been together and I do the same to her but the washing aspect I don’t do lol.
To my own view she think that by threaten you with Deportation you will lose your moral as the Husband, don’t show to her you care to stay in this shit hole, tell her you can leave at anytime and deportation never scare you. You cannot do better than to call her and talk her down. Letting her know the Deportation scope don’t scare you and with you inside the country there is nothing she can do when you retain your right of residence.
