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by enduringdifficulties » Tue Mar 25, 2014 2:20 pm
Thank you for your answer. I agree with you on this being a difficult question, there's definitely a lot of people living in their spouse's countries who've been subjected to the injustice that I have been/am being subjected to.
The country in question is a post-communist country, Poland.
As far as the UK is concerned, I would say, they come at the top of countries that respect human rights and I really admire that country for their laws in that respect. The requirements from UK nationals is definitely an exemption and UK citizens should have facilitation to bring their families live with them.
The case that I'm referring to concerns in particular those who have been living for a few years in a particular country and are not applying for their first residence. I believe that the requirements for the 3rd-4th residence should be different from those for the first residence and the foreigner's life should be taken into account while processing a residence application on the basis of marriage.
My case goes back to August 2013 when I applied for my third permit (because of being married to a Polish citizen), I received a negative decision which I appealed. Since I appealed it, I still got to retain my legal status and still be able to work. In September 2013 the decision was upheld, I had become an illegal resident (in their opinion) the moment I picked up the letter sent from the higher instance body in which the previous decision was upheld and from that moment I couldn't go to work anymore and my permanent job contract was terminated. I was accused of giving a false testimony which wasn't really true.
Within a month from that date I applied again, on the basis of marriage. After 3 months and a half (in accordance to national laws they should give an answer within a month and within 2 months in complicated cases) I got another negative decision. It was based on manipulating my testimony(I have evidence), my mother in law's testimony (85% of her testimony is false and I have evidence), I was also accused of giving a false testimony. They have even gone far and accused me of marrying my wife to circumvent laws !
I haven't been working for almost 7 months, I have gone bankrupt, messages from collections almost outnumber messages from my wife and friends, all my savings are over. As someone who's been employed for over 2 years, I went to register as an unemployed to receive unemployment benefits which are a joke (first 3 months 180€, next 3 months 135€, and then nothing). It turns out that I can't register because I don't have a residence, despite the fact of being married, let alone that I had paid taxes and installments for public health insurance for over 2 years ! I had operations due to health issues to be done ( I was scheduled to do them last year) and I can't have them done since I can't register as unemployed, even though I was supposed to have those operations done with my private insurance that I had also lost with my job !
In Poland, starting from May the first, new laws will go into force, for instance, you can apply for residence on the basis of respecting family life (from the human convention on human rights) but all the past years that didn't exist. Only starting from 2005 spouses of polish nationals could work but before that they couldn't.
Considering what happened with my and what's going on now in my life, I'm going to file at least 4 lawsuits before court against poland and the city that I live in. In the decision that I received regarding my residence I was accused of things that are totally untrue, things that demeaned me and my dignity, not only was I accused of getting married to circumvent their medieval laws but they even accused me of having never supported my wife financially even though when we lived in our first apartment for almost 8 months I was the sole provider of the family.
The reason that I'm asking about how things are in other countries is to see if this country that I am in is the only one behind or if others also are. I need to compare the laws and see how the family and people's lives are being respected in other countries.
It is my imperative right to work to live, to pay my debt and continue my life.