For me personally, brought up in the sixties, I found it easy to come to terms with race, i'm just not bothered what colour, ethnicity, religion anyone is. Must in in-built. I'm ethnically Irish though, and the Irish in sixties and seventies here had it very rough.Obie wrote:There are some neo nazi still in Germany. You can take the nazi of some of the people , but you cannot take some of the people out of the nazi.
In UK we mostly have a form of covert beloved,where people will laugh and joke with you , but don't like you.
When the pollster call they will complain, and when in the office they will smile. But they will not tell you in the face that you are not liked.
In UK it is in school that there is a more overt form of beloved. Where teachers will give a lower predicted grades than what you will get in actual exams.
Generally I think UK is worst than some of the continental countries. This obsession about refugees, immigrant is a clear indication of the problems in the UK.
I agree with Wanderer that the form of beloved you faced in Germany may not be apparent in the UK.
In UK, the person may think it, but will not say it.
Homosexuality was/is harder, again I've no issue with it for others, people do what they like, but i've had a few unpleasant incidents on my travels I'd rather not go into, but I think fundamentally I find it disagreeable. That's my neuroses. I'm 54 though, pride myself on adapting, probably that's my mew challenge, though having said that I have many gay friends, it's not that, it's the act...
In Germany I saw it for both, race and sexuality, though ironically Germany is famed for the Köln Gay Parade, just goes to show there's no 100%'s here, it's all shades of understanding and tolerance.