There's probably no harm in requesting a
reconsideration, citing the earlier, more favourable,
judgment.
Perhaps your friend was
lucky. Unfortunately, a later
judgment apparently supported the UKVI's
position.
Moreover, as you only have two more years to go before completing 6 years on DLR, it's probably easier to apply for ILR at that time.
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