I hear what you're saying depserado. Thanks for the advice again. I agree with you 100% with regards to the relative mentalities of the parties concerned. I shall follow your advice and tell my wife the same.
I think the whole issue came about as follows. In the covering letter my wife submitted with the application, we submitted a list of all the evidence and supporting documents we enclosed. One of the items of the list read:
Our civil marriage and ‘Nikah’ certificates issued in December 2007 after our wedding which took place in India
At the time we thought that the "Memorandum of Marriage" document is the civil marriage certificate.
Upon enquiring about the status of my wife's application by emailing the Deputy British High Commission in Mumbai, I received the following response:
Dear Sir
This is with regards to your email below.
We have received your wife's application for a UK visa at our office, however your wife is required to attend our office for an interview, an appointment for this interview has to be taken from the VFS office.
Please note the officer has requested your wife to bring in the civil marriage certificate along with her at the time of her interview.
Kindly contact the Visa Facilitation Centre in Mumbai on 6633 1700 or 6636 7066.
Yours faithfully
Casework Unit
This was very confusing as we thought we had already submitted our civil marriage certificate (though this was actually the "Memorandum of Marriage document). So I was beginning to think they were doubting the validity of our marriage. Upon doing some research on the Internet I found that the civil marriage certificate and "Memorandum of Marriage" are 2 completely different documents and that we didnt have a civil marriage certificate as didn't have a civil marriage ceremony in court. We just had a Nikah and then the marriage was registered as required by Indian law. But our marriage was still valid.
In order to clarify this with the Deputy British High Commission, I sent them the following email:
Dear Sir/Madam,
Many thanks for your prompt response. My wife shall contact the VFS Application Centre at Mumbai South to arrange an appointment to attend an interview at the Deputy British High Commission office in Mumbai.
With regards to the civil marriage certificate, we feel that there may have been a slight misunderstanding in the application, for which we sincerely apologise. We firstly had a traditional/religious marriage ceremony according to the Muslim rites in India and, hence, obtained a Nikah certificate, which we have submitted with the application. The following day we legally registered the marriage in my wife's town, as required by Indian law. As a result of this registration of the marriage, we were issued with the "Memorandum of Marriage", which we have also submitted with the application. We believe that our marriage is valid now as a result of this registration, as far as Indian laws are concerned. Therefore, there was no need to have a further ceremony in court in order to obtain a civil marriage certificate.
Please could you confirm that the aforementioned documents, namely Nikah certificate and "Memorandum of Marriage", are present in the application pack we have submitted. We were not issued with any other certificates or documents at the time of registering the marriage, and upon querying this, we have been advised that this is normal practice in India and that the memorandum is considered as valid, legal evidence of our marriage. Furthermore we have also been advised that it is normal practice for the original copy of the marriage memorandum to be retained by the issuing authority. However, my wife shall bring another, stamped and certified, true copy of this memorandum with her at the interview.
I hope that clarifies the situation and allows you to process my wife's application accordingly. Given this information, please could you confirm whether you still require my wife to attend an interview, even though we do not have a civil marriage certificate to present to you. Also, please could you let me know if you require any further information or would like my wife to present any further documents.
Regards,
Parvez
..and this is the response I got:
Dear Sir
This is with regards to your email below.
The Entry clearance officer assessing your wife's application for a UK has noted the original Nikkah Certificate you have submitted and a true copy of the Memorandum of Marriage. However the officer has requested your wife to come in for an interview before she could reach a decision on her UK visa application. The officer has also requested your wife to bring in the original and not a true copy of the Memorandum of Marriage/ civil marriage certificate along with her at the time of the interview.
Yours faithfully
Casework Unit
Sorry about all the detail. Just thought it might help people to help me.
As the "true copies" don't bare my and my wife's proper signatures (these were completed by the registrar), will the Deput British High Commission not claim it to be not original?