As previously said, why not get married in Thailand? Your fiancee can clearly do that with no problem, and for you, a non-Thai? Have a look at
this webpage from the British Embassy, Bangkok.
You will see that it contains links to affirmation document. So :-
- Prepare your affirmation document
- Go to the Consular Section at the embassy and sign it.
- Take a copy of your affirmation document to one of the numerous translation bureaux near to the British Embassy. Ask them to do as much of the translation into Thai as they can.
- Go back to the Embassy the next day and pick up your affirmation document, which will now have been countersigned by an official in the embassy.
- Go back to the translation bureau and hand them the affirmation document. Wait while they finish off the translation.
- Get a taxi to the Thai Ministry of Foreign Affairs, and pay for the same-day service. I think that will cost you 800 baht. A couple of hours later you will be handed the affirmation, in English and Thai, now bearing the stamp of the Ministry.
- You are now free to marry at any Amphur (Register Office) in Thailand, on production of the affirmation documents, and your British passport (details of which will be in your affirmation document).
So all in all it is just a couple of days to do all of that. So :-
I am only going over for 2 weeks due to work commitments
-: is no problem at all, given when going to the Amphur there is no pre-notice needed as in the UK. The two of you just go along, without appointment, with the required documents, hand them over, fill in a simple form (well it will be simple for your fiancée!), pay a small fee (back in 2001 it was about 200 baht .... a little over £3), and then get handed two copies of the marriage certificate! You are married!
Of course your fiancee would need to travel to Thailand, but as long as she can produce her Thai ID card, and Tabien Bahn (house document) she can marry at any Amphur in Thailand. She does not need to travel to Bangkok, if for example going somewhere nearer such as Sisaket would be more convenient.
oakydoke, is that helpful enough?
A final thought ..... that doesn't sound like a Thai weeding to you? Well it is the legal marriage, but if the two of you want a religious ceremony as well, that is something entirely different. Under the laws of Thailand a religious ceremony has no legal significance at all ... you can only get legally married at the Amphur.