Lol, trying to but it's hard, it's all I've been doing this last fortnight or so along with working. InshaAllah going to be a dad in September so that adds to my worrying. 'Alaa bi thikrillahi tatmainnul qulub' Indeed with the rememberance of Allah do hearts find tranquility. Surah Ar Ra'd.
Thanks for the info about Gerrys.
I used FedEx Priority, had 3kg including all photocopies (safer for me to do it, trust me!). Originally was using DHL but didn't have papers ready and collector wasn't hanging around so had to wait a few days for the rebooking due to bank holiday. Alhamdulillah, it actually worked in my favour though an extremely bitter experience. I later spotted a date typo on my financial documents and also managed to get an extra document drafted for projected income. Then when collector came yesterday I still had some bits to do so rescheduled it for today. Then he turns up an hour early today and I run out of black ink and had to reprint a letter due to having made an addition (important in my eyes) at 3.30am = aaarrghhh!
Cost me £44.08 via a friend's account.
Glad they're gone from me, now I can get back to the gym, have a night of doing nothing but watching some sport and eating Haagen Daz
Until they reach Pakistan that is lol, and I have to co-ordinate bits and bobs from 5000 miles away.
As for patience, well, I have to have the patience of an animal in that I can't change the situation (e.g. donkey used by a farmer), whereas the patience of a human being is that which applies to situations that you can affect but choose not to.
I'm hoping extra nawafil and some tahajjud will help me with a speedy and favourable outcome. Even if it doesn't I still won't have lost out so alhamdulillah.
In short, this stressing has actually been very good for me in regards to my deen. It's been a reminder and a reason to turn to Allah more.
I've also probably aged a year, lost a few thousand hairs and turned what's left white
