Enough time to improve her english and decide if she likes the UK enough to go for fiance visa next time, and spend our lives together (We are not children and she certainly does not just want to come here an a whim) Its a massive decision and one she/we will not take lightly.
I understand - my (now) wife came here on a tourist visa about 4-5 times before we got engaged and switched to a fiancee visa.
I would, personally, be blindingly open and truthful or you might cause yourself problems down the line.
Example - now "we are just friends and she wants to visit" would raise suspicions and a fiancee visa immediately upon return to China would be even more suspicious.
"We are together and this visit is to understand if she likes the UK and we can make a decision where to live, she then intends to return to China, complete her divorce and apply for a fiancee visa so we can marry in the UK" is more truthful and shows an understanding of the process.
She will have a private english tutor daily during her Visit Visa to improve her written english and reading-Do I mention this?
Having said be open and honest, you should be cautious about the studying element. There are visitor visas FOR studying and studying while here, even with a private tutor, might be considered a breach of visa. I, personally, wouldn't mention this at all.
(Note: We had a similar thing when my wife was on fiancee visa, we enquired about doing volunteer work at a local school - since she couldn't take employment - to be told that this would be considered employment and would be a breach of visa conditions)
She has penty, unfortunately its in her fathers account..........She lives like a Queen in china (Though in the eyes of the ECO you are correct) Though does the fact I am sponsoring her negate this fact?
No - your sponsorship only negates the need to prove funds for the trip. It doesn't mean that they won't be looking for financial ties to China to give a reason why she''ll return.
You've given lots of reasons for the visit - but throughout all of this you haven't actually addressed WHY she will return. To all intents and purposes it looks like she's already cut ties to China.
I don't know how you get around this - but I feel a well worded letter from her and you showing that you intend to follow the process would be sensible.
Personally - I would always advocate a letter from the applicant laying out their story. It tells your story the way you want it, rather than the bits and pieces you get in the form.
Think about it this way ... she needs to show (basically) three things in her application:
1) It's a genuine visit
2) She's got the funds for it (which you are showing)
3) She's going to return
I think you've got problems with 3 right now - which leads to doubts about 1.
I think you probably need to shore up your financial evidence too - I understand you only have one payslip and bank statement- but send evidence of your employment in the UAE. You should show evidence your mother owns the house (mortgage deeds/land registry) and the letter from her should confirm the commercial relationship you have. Your letter should outline the size of the house to ensure no overcrowding.
Copy of my UK Passport
Your passport copy should include all pages and should be certified.
Would a character reference from a policeman etc help saying I am a of good character and law abiding help?
Character reference for you makes no difference - it's her who is applying and her who they are interested in right now. As long as your finances are genuine - you're ok there.
I think, providing you can provide the truth about wanting to follow the process and the reason for the visit, you should be ok - but you're going to need to tred carefully. We had a friend who applied to visit a boyfriend recently and was turned down to the fact she didn't have a job at time of application - she had failed to include the new job she DID have (and would have been starting on her return) so it looks like she was cutting ties and leaving (despite her having a 7yo son).
If you want to be really cautious - I'd wait for a few months and build at least 2 more months payslips and bank balance - show a good healthy +ve balance too.
M.