Sammad wrote:I want to send my wife back and give her a divorce Pakistan, since I want to marry another woman in Pakistan. My current wife is just unhappy/sickly etc we just don't get along. However when she found out I want a divorce she say's she will not leave and wants to stay in the country. Seems like she was only after the visa.
This post made my jaw drop open, didn't see this coming

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Not sure about what u mean with sickly.
Whilst I can see where Batley is coming from, if I can share a true story about my mum's friend's son. He is an amazing down to earth cool guy who would never do anybody wrong. He got married to a girl in Pak and she came over and stayed for some time - not sure if it was for over 2 years but after they both got a child, one night she took the baby boy and left the house. She had the audacity to put the blame on her in laws and husband for torturing her bla bla bla all bad things she said. Couple of years later she lets the kid come over to his dad's house to stay for a couple of days. Kid is about 4 years old right now. Whilst I cannot understand why she is doing this and what's going on in her head but it is true that some people get married to a British Citizen just for the visa.
Yes the "Love" is there before the person from Pak comes over but afterwards it's like as if he/she is using the British Citizen and then wham they come up with some crazy stuff.
For the curious ones, the guy who was wronged got married to someone from within family abroad now and he is happy alhamdulillah with his new partner.
So I guess it just goes to show that one must be
EXTREMELY careful when marrying someone from abroad who is outside of family completely. Distant or close family (i.e. cousins) are least likely to do any wrong but hey its a dodgy world out there so you never know.
Sorry to hear about your situation Sammad. Hope it's just a misunderstanding and that all gets well. Divorce just doesn't exist in my dictionary but for those who need it, like Batley said, it should be a last resort as there are better methods to resolve issues - inshallah.
July is nearby so lets see if FaithHill and okara can get some news (okara, you awaiting for result in July, right? don't have ur details on the spreadsheet)
fz158 wrote:SAERAJ or Shadow86 brothers,
guys my wifes status changed today to "Your visa has been forwarded to the emabassy for processing on 26/04/2011"?
Does this defintely mean its going to be stamped any time soon and they will call her? Any rough time frame would be greatly appreciated if u have any info on what this exactly means.
By the way thanks for your help guys
Just saw ur message now Zaki, so that is great news, wait 26 as in today!!! u serious???? on a weekend!!!?????

AWESOME!!!!!!!!!!!! Anyways back to business, well it means that inshallah they will process ur wife's visa soon. This coming week inshallah and then send it back so that Gerry's can let your wife know its ready for collection sometime week commencing 4th July perhaps? If not then the following week. Your time is very close now, almost there Zaki

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Edit to update: Heyyyyyyyy!!!!!!! Mine says the same thing!!!!!!!!!!

NICEEEEEEEEE wow! Unbelivable!
