In Holland, I met a German girl in Feb 2002. We fell in love & we used to live together during her summer & winter holidays.
I returned to India in June 2004 & she also came to India in Jan 2005 & we got married (she even converted to Islam for the marriage).
She came to UK & I followed in May 2006 & received a 5 year (EEA Family Permit) Residence stamp.
Our relationship broke-down & she filed for divorce, uncontested by me, decree nisi issued in May 2010, no children
In her divorce petition, she has stated that we lived together in India for a year & also lived together in UK for a year, but we don't have any other proof of living together, except for what she said in her divorce petition (is it admissible in IAC hearing slated for 6 dec 2011?). I had taken on rent two properties, 1st, Jan-June 2007 & 2nd, Mar-Nov 2008 for us to live together but she refused
I have been working continuously in UK for the full 5 years since my 1st arrival (except for 2 short visits to India), proof as all p60s, p45s & few pay-slips submitted.
unfortunately, no documents available with me proving employment of my ex-wife.
Initially she was very friendly & promised all help, but later phoned to retract all promises. no phones & no contact with her, & unreachable too since. Her mother could be contacted, in an utmost emergency, but I'd rather not give her any more stress, if possible, regarding this issue
I have an idea of where she was working between my coming in 2006 & our divorce in 2010,
but according to the Home-Office, those employers have not responded.
I lost my passport which had the Entry-Clearance & Residence Permit stamps, but i've kept photocopies
I applied for Permanent Residence in July 2011, but it was refused, reasons, according to the "refusal letter:
1. not completeing 5 years in UK (easily disproved by photocopies of arrival stamp on my Entry-Clearance)
2. no documentary evidence to show that we resided together for atleast a year, [problem..

3. no evidence to show that the EEA spouse was exercising treaty rights at the time of divorce [problem..

hence not qualify under regulation 10 (5) and 15 (1) (f) of immigration EEA regulation 2006, according to refusal letter"
I have appealed and my date of hearing is 6 dec 2011
any suggessions, or advice, or anything, about documents or otherwise to strengthen my presentation to the 1st-Tier Tribunal regarding refusal points 2 & 3, or any other key point would be Absolutely Hugely Appreciated.