I am an American citizen, my husband is a Swedish citizen. We were married in 8/11, applied for a residence permit based on our marriage shortly thereafter, my husband received a questionnaire two weeks later, sent it in, and it has been 5 months with No progress. We were told numerous times by embassy workers that due to the fact that we were married, there was no way that I could be denied it, and that it would go through within 3 months. However: they also said that I could NOT go to Sweden and wait for my decision and that if I was I would be breaking "the law" (which law i'm not sure) and that it would invalidate my residence card process if it were Found Out that I was in Sweden. When I called the embassy about the stipulations for visiting they said I must tell them the exact dates that I would be in Sweden and that during that time my application process would be Paused. Upon returning I called back to check and make sure that my application was active, and the woman answering the phone said curtly "O there isn't even an indication here that you were in Sweden bye."
The official waiting time has went from consular staff saying 3weeks to 3months, and "O it's summer so you're going to have to wait about 9 months. The official processing time listed on migrationsverket has changed since applying from 6-9 months, now to 7-10 months, but with ONLINE applications (created shortly after we applied) receiving decisions in less than 3 months (!?!)
However, I found this: ECJ Case C-157/03, Commission v Spain [2005]; "Residence [Cards] must be issued within the required maximum of 6 months. No delay or extension is allowed." But i'm not sure if this applies to Sweden or not.
I've received conflicting answers from almost ever single consular staff member and then see countless threads of knowledgeable people telling me that I have the right to be in Sweden. What He and I most want would be for me to just "move" to Sweden now and wait there until I receive my (guaranteed) confirmation (as opposed to just wasting my time here, waiting)- is this possible? would I be breaking any laws? Flying last time my passport was stamped only in Amsterdam anyway, not in Sweden. Any consideration/help would be greatly appreciated, on my last limb here.
