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Hi Abdul,Abdul Majid wrote:Just a quick question im heading down to where they give the visa's to travel to India..anybody got any experience on how long it takes until you get your passport back with the indian visa stamped in it?
Hi Nad,nad wrote:Hi ,
My wife applied for settlement visa on 10th may, and on UKBA site it says 84% applications were processed in 60 days,
I wonder how long they will take it's over two months..
application submitted in Hyderabad, India.
Thanks.
Hi Nad,nad wrote:Hi ,
My wife applied for settlement visa on 10th may, and on UKBA site it says 84% applications were processed in 60 days,
I wonder how long they will take it's over two months..
application submitted in Hyderabad, India.
Thanks.
Hi sKaur,sKAUR wrote:i thought they would have interveiwed us.maroonedsoul wrote:Hi S_kaur,
I am so sorry to hear about your rejection.
The thing that annoys me about this decision is although there are certain guidelines on what a genuine relationship constitutes, when they are unable to decide, they should seek an interview to learn more about the applicants. Not all applicants know how to show these traits or rather culturally tend not to express so openly.
According to the UKBA:
"
Outward signs of affection
Companionship
Physical intimacy
Emotional support; and
Mutual concern for each other’s welfare.
These traits distinguish a genuine marriage from a sham marriage. It is our view that when a relationship is genuine, these traits are apparent regardless if the couple has been together in a relationship for a day, a month, a year, or even decades."
I wish you good luck with your appeal and I hope the above information is helpful in providing extra evidence to prove that your relationship is genuine.
no i didnt because i had provided injunctions and court orders against my ex a full statement from my divorce lawyer stating my previous marriage ended due to domestic violence. i thoight they would have done the maths i even said that my husband is my massis husbands bro son. its shocking having been brought up in this country where anyone can marry anyone should there be so much predudice against divorcee? what are we not alloowed another chance ? stupid reallyneerajverma wrote:@skaur,sKAUR wrote:@ batley khanbatleykhan wrote:Arranged marriage or a love marriage is irrelevant as far as an ECO is concerned.What matters most is that its a GENEUINE marriagesKAUR wrote:i cant believe they turned our love marriage into n arranged one and still had the nerve to say WE stated in our application that it is an arranged marriage
Can you suggest any other docs i can provide got over 200 pics of us and prob 2000 emails to say the least.hat it has been explained why the exact question they have asked is why we have not explained why a a man exactly 2 yrs younger would marry someone who is divorced with three kids so im confused as to what tp provide. i am planning a trip in oct as cant get hol of work and school dates to match would that help my appeal.
Its really shocking to hear the exact reason of refusal. Haven't you provided the cover letter explaining how you people met, and why he wants to come to the UK. Although its silly, but still they want. Don't know which law says a divorced girl cannot marry a single and younger guy.. They are so advanced , still thinks so backward. Inspite of giving all proofs of communication what else they want..? They are imposing invalid reasons of refusal because they can interview if really want to know about genuinity.
:O
sKAUR wrote:no i didnt because i had provided injunctions and court orders against my ex a full statement from my divorce lawyer stating my previous marriage ended due to domestic violence. i thoight they would have done the maths i even said that my husband is my massis husbands bro son. its shocking having been brought up in this country where anyone can marry anyone should there be so much predudice against divorcee? what are we not alloowed another chance ? stupid reallyneerajverma wrote:@skaur,sKAUR wrote:@ batley khanbatleykhan wrote:
Arranged marriage or a love marriage is irrelevant as far as an ECO is concerned.What matters most is that its a GENEUINE marriage
Can you suggest any other docs i can provide got over 200 pics of us and prob 2000 emails to say the least.hat it has been explained why the exact question they have asked is why we have not explained why a a man exactly 2 yrs younger would marry someone who is divorced with three kids so im confused as to what tp provide. i am planning a trip in oct as cant get hol of work and school dates to match would that help my appeal.
Its really shocking to hear the exact reason of refusal. Haven't you provided the cover letter explaining how you people met, and why he wants to come to the UK. Although its silly, but still they want. Don't know which law says a divorced girl cannot marry a single and younger guy.. They are so advanced , still thinks so backward. Inspite of giving all proofs of communication what else they want..? They are imposing invalid reasons of refusal because they can interview if really want to know about genuinity.
:O
been together for over a year now met via grandmother passing on number emails telephone pics cards even my kids drew drawings and wrote letters and there only 7 5 and 3 yrs. school even wrote letters its mad really not only am i deeply upset so are my kids who dont see their real dad and have adopted my new husband as their father. i dont think eco have any feelings or compassionmaroonedsoul wrote:Hi sKaur,sKAUR wrote:i thought they would have interveiwed us.maroonedsoul wrote:Hi S_kaur,
I am so sorry to hear about your rejection.
The thing that annoys me about this decision is although there are certain guidelines on what a genuine relationship constitutes, when they are unable to decide, they should seek an interview to learn more about the applicants. Not all applicants know how to show these traits or rather culturally tend not to express so openly.
According to the UKBA:
"
Outward signs of affection
Companionship
Physical intimacy
Emotional support; and
Mutual concern for each other’s welfare.
These traits distinguish a genuine marriage from a sham marriage. It is our view that when a relationship is genuine, these traits are apparent regardless if the couple has been together in a relationship for a day, a month, a year, or even decades."
I wish you good luck with your appeal and I hope the above information is helpful in providing extra evidence to prove that your relationship is genuine.
I am glad you have a good barrister as there seems to be a lot of prejudice and stereotypes by UKBA who are failing to see the evidence you have given.
I have watched innumerous UK Border Agency videos and I remember them interviewing a much older woman and younger man marrying. They were from Delhi, I think. Anyway after the interview, the Indian husband got the visa.
I think perhaps an explanation would be well suited to your case. For example, in my case, I provided a relationship timeline document where I have explained how our relationship started 6 years ago, and how often we met, emails from each year, followed by trip photos with descriptions on the back correlating with visa stamps from different countries.
I have also sent phone chat records, greeting cards, post cards and emails from other people asking how we are doing generally etc.
I have no idea how long you two have been together. I can send you my relationship timeline document if that helps. And perhaps you can address those points I mentioned in the previous post and give examples of behaviors that shows that your husband cares about you, provides support etc.
Feel free to pm me your email address and I will get back to you.
Good luck.
sKAUR wrote:neerajverma wrote:sKAUR wrote:@ batley khanbatleykhan wrote:
Arranged marriage or a love marriage is irrelevant as far as an ECO is concerned.What matters most is that its a GENEUINE marriage
Can you suggest any other docs i can provide got over 200 pics of us and prob 2000 emails to say the least.hat it has been explained why the exact question they have asked is why we have not explained why a a man exactly 2 yrs younger would marry someone who is divorced with three kids so im confused as to what tp provide. i am planning a trip in oct as cant get hol of work and school dates to match would that help my appeal.
@skaur,
Its really shocking to hear the exact reason of refusal. Haven't you provided the cover letter explaining how you people met, and why he wants to come to the UK. Although its silly, but still they want. Don't know which law says a divorced girl cannot marry a single and younger guy.. They are so advanced , still thinks so backward. Inspite of giving all proofs of communication what else they want..? They are imposing invalid reasons of refusal because they can interview if really want to know about genuinity.
:O
no i didnt because i had provided injunctions and court orders against my ex a full statement from my divorce lawyer stating my previous marriage ended due to domestic violence. i thoight they would have done the maths i even said that my husband is my massis husbands bro son. its shocking having been brought up in this country where anyone can marry anyone should there be so much predudice against divorcee? what are we not alloowed another chance ? stupid really
i hope so im not affected as my kids have nopt spoke to their real dad in three years and he has abandoned them to tell u truth so they seeked solice in my husband whom understands the kids as his parents to spilt up when he was a child, he can relate to my kids one of theone reasons why i love himneerajverma wrote:sKAUR wrote:neerajverma wrote:sKAUR wrote:
@ batley khan
Can you suggest any other docs i can provide got over 200 pics of us and prob 2000 emails to say the least.hat it has been explained why the exact question they have asked is why we have not explained why a a man exactly 2 yrs younger would marry someone who is divorced with three kids so im confused as to what tp provide. i am planning a trip in oct as cant get hol of work and school dates to match would that help my appeal.
@skaur,
Its really shocking to hear the exact reason of refusal. Haven't you provided the cover letter explaining how you people met, and why he wants to come to the UK. Although its silly, but still they want. Don't know which law says a divorced girl cannot marry a single and younger guy.. They are so advanced , still thinks so backward. Inspite of giving all proofs of communication what else they want..? They are imposing invalid reasons of refusal because they can interview if really want to know about genuinity.
:O
no i didnt because i had provided injunctions and court orders against my ex a full statement from my divorce lawyer stating my previous marriage ended due to domestic violence. i thoight they would have done the maths i even said that my husband is my massis husbands bro son. its shocking having been brought up in this country where anyone can marry anyone should there be so much predudice against divorcee? what are we not alloowed another chance ? stupid really
@skaur,
Can understand your feelings as I'm in the same boat.
I really wish and pray, they overturned decision and provide you visa at the earliest.
Fingers crossed.
Best wishes & regards,
hope so or ill have to shift to india with the kids for a whilesKAUR wrote:i hope so im not affected as my kids have nopt spoke to their real dad in three years and he has abandoned them to tell u truth so they seeked solice in my husband whom understands the kids as his parents to spilt up when he was a child, he can relate to my kids one of theone reasons why i love himneerajverma wrote:sKAUR wrote:neerajverma wrote:
@skaur,
Its really shocking to hear the exact reason of refusal. Haven't you provided the cover letter explaining how you people met, and why he wants to come to the UK. Although its silly, but still they want. Don't know which law says a divorced girl cannot marry a single and younger guy.. They are so advanced , still thinks so backward. Inspite of giving all proofs of communication what else they want..? They are imposing invalid reasons of refusal because they can interview if really want to know about genuinity.
:O
no i didnt because i had provided injunctions and court orders against my ex a full statement from my divorce lawyer stating my previous marriage ended due to domestic violence. i thoight they would have done the maths i even said that my husband is my massis husbands bro son. its shocking having been brought up in this country where anyone can marry anyone should there be so much predudice against divorcee? what are we not alloowed another chance ? stupid really
@skaur,
Can understand your feelings as I'm in the same boat.
I really wish and pray, they overturned decision and provide you visa at the earliest.
Fingers crossed.
Best wishes & regards,
@neerajverma did your appl get refused toosKAUR wrote:hope so or ill have to shift to india with the kids for a whilesKAUR wrote:i hope so im not affected as my kids have nopt spoke to their real dad in three years and he has abandoned them to tell u truth so they seeked solice in my husband whom understands the kids as his parents to spilt up when he was a child, he can relate to my kids one of theone reasons why i love himneerajverma wrote:sKAUR wrote:
no i didnt because i had provided injunctions and court orders against my ex a full statement from my divorce lawyer stating my previous marriage ended due to domestic violence. i thoight they would have done the maths i even said that my husband is my massis husbands bro son. its shocking having been brought up in this country where anyone can marry anyone should there be so much predudice against divorcee? what are we not alloowed another chance ? stupid really
@skaur,
Can understand your feelings as I'm in the same boat.
I really wish and pray, they overturned decision and provide you visa at the earliest.
Fingers crossed.
Best wishes & regards,
@skaur,sKAUR wrote:@neerajverma did your appl get refused toosKAUR wrote:hope so or ill have to shift to india with the kids for a whilesKAUR wrote:i hope so im not affected as my kids have nopt spoke to their real dad in three years and he has abandoned them to tell u truth so they seeked solice in my husband whom understands the kids as his parents to spilt up when he was a child, he can relate to my kids one of theone reasons why i love himneerajverma wrote:
@skaur,
Can understand your feelings as I'm in the same boat.
I really wish and pray, they overturned decision and provide you visa at the earliest.
Fingers crossed.
Best wishes & regards,
wel hopefully it should be fine i ahve kids therefore in thier opinion nobody would want the so called 'baggage' of kids but there arev people out there who have a heartneerajverma wrote:@skaur,sKAUR wrote:@neerajverma did your appl get refused toosKAUR wrote:hope so or ill have to shift to india with the kids for a whilesKAUR wrote:
i hope so im not affected as my kids have nopt spoke to their real dad in three years and he has abandoned them to tell u truth so they seeked solice in my husband whom understands the kids as his parents to spilt up when he was a child, he can relate to my kids one of theone reasons why i love him
Nope, my application is still under process at delhi BHC. My case is same like you, being younger and divorced. So bit worried about the same. let's see what's gonna happened. I wish they could understand a divorced person can be in a genuine relationship with a single.
Fingers crossed..
wel hopefully it should be fine i ahve kids therefore in thier opinion nobody would want thesKAUR wrote:@skaur,neerajverma wrote:@neerajverma did your appl get refused toosKAUR wrote:hope so or ill have to shift to india with the kids for a whilesKAUR wrote:
i hope so im not affected as my kids have nopt spoke to their real dad in three years and he has abandoned them to tell u truth so they seeked solice in my husband whom understands the kids as his parents to spilt up when he was a child, he can relate to my kids one of theone reasons why i love him
Nope, my application is still under process at delhi BHC. My case is same like you, being younger and divorced. So bit worried about the same. let's see what's gonna happened. I wish they could understand a divorced person can be in a genuine relationship with a single.
Fingers crossed..
@JS26JS26 wrote:Hi All,
Just wanted to let you know I got my Visa today, finally the wait is over and I am so Happy.
I got it in 58 working days. I hope all those waiting for their visas get it soon.
neerajverma wrote:@JS26JS26 wrote:Hi All,
Just wanted to let you know I got my Visa today, finally the wait is over and I am so Happy.
I got it in 58 working days. I hope all those waiting for their visas get it soon.
Many Many congratulations to you. Hope you have a great life ahead.
Really happy to get good news from the forum.
Wish others get the same, really long wait now.
Best wishes and regards,
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Hey JS26,JS26 wrote:Hi All,
Just wanted to let you know I got my Visa today, finally the wait is over and I am so Happy.
I got it in 58 working days. I hope all those waiting for their visas get it soon.
Congrats .. enjoy u r life ahead ...JS26 wrote:Hi All,
Just wanted to let you know I got my Visa today, finally the wait is over and I am so Happy.
I got it in 58 working days. I hope all those waiting for their visas get it soon.
maroonedsoul wrote:Hey JS26,JS26 wrote:Hi All,
Just wanted to let you know I got my Visa today, finally the wait is over and I am so Happy.
I got it in 58 working days. I hope all those waiting for their visas get it soon.
Hearty Congratulations! So glad you got it within 60 days.
I regret my decision to apply in Hyderabad as I could have easily done it in Pune!! Cannot trust the stats ever!!!
Well, when do you fly out?
Hey Zeezee,zeezeezee wrote:Hi Maroonedsoul,
Did your mp get back to you at anything they may do to help ?
I'm thinking of seeing mine too- as no reply since i asked her to look into the situation further- but will wait until 72 days are over as that's the "average" time for Chennai- though we have someone who has been waiting 74 days - :S Poor guy.