OP, when you filled the application online is there a certain ref number for your application provided to you after you have completed filling the online application? contact
visamail@justice.ie, if your application is registered surely the guyz at that office will be able to tell you and what stage the application is, they also usually write back to you in a matter of minutes to hours.
Please make sure you recoup the telephone bill back from the embassy, it is indeed clearly illegal for them to charge you or your family member for a penny whilst trying to establish a contact with them.
They are suppose to provide a non premium number for EU citizens and their families.