im on a SPOUSE VISA

[missyrable]

Let me start my query by stating how my husband is...

I am married to a british person we got married in Hongkong April 2013, I applied for visa year 2014 and got it by June 2014 and came here to UK SEpt 2014. My husband is on DLA, everything was ok between us when i meet him in Hongkong and he seems a nice guy. During my 1st week of stay with him (in Scotland) Ive seen very strange behaviour of him which he often shouts, swear and scream at television because of the program ("He screams English bastard" and he wants only Scottish host at the program. He also scream at the telephone when no one answers and send him to operator in short he got no patience with everything and he got the habit of talking to himself most of the time.

We never live together because i got the job in Wales Oct 2014, but we plan that i only work 6months to gain experience and come back to Scotland. November 2014 I came back to Scotland to visit him and stayed for 4days but it never happened. He kicked me out telling that his tired of the relationship. I will never go through so much details about what happen.. all i can say is theres something wrong with the mentality of my husband i tried to understand maybe because he was in pain thats why his aacting like that but its so unacceptable that he shouts, swear and scream for no reason. I left Scotland same day.

I tried to talk to him after what happen when i went back to Wales and ask him to calm down and we sort out the relationship but all i got was nasty messages from him. When i decided to stop texting him he then texted me to arrange the relationship and then i thought were ok. another day passed he change his mood again and strated texting me nastily.

I had enouggh of him. I seeked advise from Womens Aid and they told me to ignore him and not to keep in touch with him, which make him more angry because i never reply to his messages and he keep on messaging me nastily and threatening me that he will hunt me. and the later on i reported his text messages to the police. Police gave me option if i wnated him to be arrested or just gave him warning so i choose 2nd option. I still love my husband and im concerned of his situation being disabled.

February is the last text i got from my husband. I never heard anything from him. Dec 2015 i keep on having bad dreams about him i get so worried something might happened so immideately contacted the neighbour in Scotland to ask if hes ok and i told my neighbour not to tell i contacted her,.

Weeks later he get in touch of me we bacame ok again, I visited him february and march 2016 in scotland. he visited me here in Wales August 2016. we planned that he will moved so we can live together and start again. December 16 2016 hes officially moved to Wales. 2nd day of his stay he starts kicking off again the same person that was in Scotland.. december 23 he left and he said were finished and he will come back for his stuff. he even told me about him filing for divorce and threatening me that he will not help me with my visa appplication which he always told me everytime he gets angry at me, and telling me that hell make me an illegal immigrant here.


Please give me advice what to do?
Will i still be able to stay here even if he will not help me with my visa?

my visa expires march 18 2017.

[Casa]

As your relationship is no longer subsisting, unless you submit a SET(DV) application under Domestic Violence your right to remain in the UK as a spouse will cease.

You will need to provide documented evidence such as police and/or GP reports supporting your claim. Bear in mind that DV doesn't necessarily mean physical abuse, it can also be psychological.

https://www.gov.uk/government/uploads/s ... _11-16.pdf

Do you qualify for any Points Based work category?

[missyrable]

hello casa

thank you so much for replying to my query.

I have read of that visa under domestic abuse.

the only evidence i got is his text messages humilating me and horrible text messages and letter from women's aid telling that i seek advice from them and i got score 12 from CAADA if im not mistaken. as there's no physical abuse happened but he mentally tortured me and until now im still scared of him eventhough his not around me. and the other factor is i only live with him for a month because i got the job far from where he lives..
would that affect my application to be refused? I dont know how really strong my evidence is..

and about point based i have no idea about it.. i only finish high school in the philippines and i work here as a care assistant but i have no NVQ qualifications but i worked nore than 2 years now with that carehome .will my company be able to issue me wirk permit?

thank you so much again in advance..

[Casa]

hello casa

thank you so much for replying to my query.

I have read of that visa under domestic abuse.

the only evidence i got is his text messages humilating me and horrible text messages and letter from women's aid telling that i seek advice from them and i got score 12 from CAADA if im not mistaken. as there's no physical abuse happened but he mentally tortured me and until now im still scared of him eventhough his not around me. and the other factor is i only live with him for a month because i got the job far from where he lives..
would that affect my application to be refused? I dont know how really strong my evidence is..

and about point based i have no idea about it.. i only finish high school in the philippines and i work here as a care assistant but i have no NVQ qualifications but i worked nore than 2 years now with that carehome .will my company be able to issue me wirk permit?

thank you so much again in advance..

What about the police intervention you've mentioned? This should be on record.

[missyrable]

oh yes i got the police record but it was since last January 2015. I never reported him again eventhough he still keeps on texting me right after i reported him. by that time I dont want him to be in trouble because im thinking things will still be sorted out.

[Casa]

Submitting the police report to the Home Office won't result in 'trouble' for your husband. You should also submit any evidence of advice you've been given by the Women's Aid.

I can't say that a SET(DV) application will succeed but you will need to consider your options as it appears you currently have no grounds on which to extend your current visa.

[missyrable]

Submitting the police report to the Home Office won't result in 'trouble' for your husband. You should also submit any evidence of advice you've been given by the Women's Aid.

I can't say that a SET(DV) application will succeed but you will need to consider your options as it appears you currently have no grounds on which to extend your current visa.

Thank you so much for your patience and kind reply. I will be preparing now all my documents for the visa application but i might be needing your help filling up my application..

theres some questions there that i need more explanation, hope you wont get tired of helping me..

thank you so much again in advance..

S E C T I O N 4 - E V I D E N C E O F D O M E S T I C V I O L E N C E

4.3 You must also provide
a statement signed by you stating whether you are still living with your partner and, if the marriage or relationship has broken down, whether domestic violence was the reason for this.

4 . 4 In the space below, please describe the incident(s) of domestic violence against you, including the date(s), time(s), and
place(s) of the incident(s). Provide full details of the incident(s) in a letter and enclose it with this form.

i need more explanation about 4.3 and 4.4

[Casa]

Submitting the police report to the Home Office won't result in 'trouble' for your husband. You should also submit any evidence of advice you've been given by the Women's Aid.

I can't say that a SET(DV) application will succeed but you will need to consider your options as it appears you currently have no grounds on which to extend your current visa.

Thank you so much for your patience and kind reply. I will be preparing now all my documents for the visa application but i might be needing your help filling up my application..

theres some questions there that i need more explanation, hope you wont get tired of helping me..

thank you so much again in advance..

S E C T I O N 4 - E V I D E N C E O F D O M E S T I C V I O L E N C E

4.3 You must also provide
a statement signed by you stating whether you are still living with your partner and, if the marriage or relationship has broken down, whether domestic violence was the reason for this.

4 . 4 In the space below, please describe the incident(s) of domestic violence against you, including the date(s), time(s), and
place(s) of the incident(s). Provide full details of the incident(s) in a letter and enclose it with this form.

i need more explanation about 4.3 and 4.4

Only you know the answer to these questions.

[missyrable]

in 4.4 is it better if i write the story about how the relationship ended?