EEA FP application informations request

[midouj]

My wife has been working in UK full time for almost 3 years. We met one year ago and lately we got married. She came here during the last year 3 times and stayed for 15 days. Since we are both working full time and she can't find a job here (my country) bevause she doesn't speak my language and for that we couldn't spend more time together than vacations and we speak daily since we met via messages, voice and video calls.

We have a plan to visit her family in her home country soon and to apply in the same time for an EEA FP to join her.

After checking the procedure i found 2 things confusing me and one thing scaring me.

1st the question 8.2.9 Have you lived with the EEA National in a relationship like a marriage or civil partnership at any time (including since a wedding or civil partnership ceremony)? Is our situation a yes or a no?!!

2nd the question 8.9.1 Where do you and the EEA National plan to live in the UK? My wife is renting a room in London and ofc if i am going to join her there we will rent our own place since I'm taking my savings with me to cover the rent and other expenses until i find a job. So i don't know how to answer this one!!

The most important thing that i found and scares us in the forums is rejections on the ground of marriage of convenience. We are having a genuine relationship and i don't know how to prove it because they say applying after the marriage is considered as sham marriage. Are pictures together and our conversations could be a proof? Printing it out would be a huge book!!!

Any help is appreciated
Thanks