ERA Dependant or family permit?

[Olenahaborets]

Good evening to the members.

. I apologize in advance but I do not know English and I'm using Google translate, I hope you can understand my problem and give me answers.

I am Ukraine and I live in Italy for 10 years I have the long-term EU residence permit unlimited. I have an 8-year relationship with an Italian man with whom I have a 20-month-old baby, and this year I married him. My husband has been working in London for 1 month (he has already worked for 3 months in London from April to June 2017). Me and the little girl we want to reach, but we should have EEA Family Permit, which now takes 3 months or so to get it, but we do not want to wait so long, because here we are alone and we will not have where to live. I did a lot of research on the internet I read a few laws and found that the Family permit is not obligatory but you can travel with your husband and try to ask for it at the border with all the necessary documentation provided by the regulation rules 2006 Directive 2004/38 / EC and I could open the visa directly from the border force with the EEA Code E1 dependent for 6 months.

at present we have the following documents:

marriage certificate

child's birth certificate

passports
permanet residence permit of Italy

home contract

work contract and letter from the employer

bank statement

4 Months of Payslips

so many photos and conversations from year to year to show that we are not the couple in fact.

With these documents can I try my entry to the country without Eea Family Permit?

Thank you.